hey. I genuinely hate being in this position but my life is taking me for a fucked up spin right now. I'll explain in comments better. if you have even 3 dollars to help with I'll be thankful. you can donate through this
context: my mother has surgery tomorrow. I'm the only one who can do the part of caretaker and I lack any reasonable medium of transport that would make my life any easier because this city fucking hates us.
on the 12th I'll also be having to watch over my abuser who has surgery that day and they'll both be indisposed so I'm being expected to deal with that. no I don't have any way of getting out of it, please don't ask.
there's some more to this but I feel vulnerable enough as it is as this happened also in October and I was basically broiled alive by my own family for trying to refuse. Anyway.
I know exactly what you're going through. You're stronger than you know for taking care of your mom in this situation, as someone who was a family caretaker for my mom too. I just wish I could help out more, but I sent what I could right now.
Subarashii
: I wish watching over my mom was the issue itself, it's more about the other guy. but I genuinely truly appreciate hearing this, I forget that the reason I'm not in the news is because I'm better than all of them. thank you so much friend and I appreciate your donation so much. I'll make the best of it.
I've also been in the unenviable position of taking care of an abusive asshole while also taking care of my mom, so yeah, /hugs in solidarity. take care of yourself, friend
Bat Matt
: my mom is also my abuser (psychological, physical and verbal too ) so I completely understand your point of view. but thank you so much for sharing, I really really really appreciate it
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: let's hope so. my irl friend is already trying to tackle helping me a bit irl with some home things so I'm not panicking as much anymore
sorry for bumping this, I'm losing so much money on this shit alone and also had keep buying food because hospital has zero (we don't have a "lunch place, I'm not sure)
sorry to bump this but my abuser's dat of internment is coming and I am Deeply Intimidated by the energy and cash pit that's going to be because I'll also be expected to take care of my mother idk what's gonna happen and I've been mildly freaking out and dissociating all day
I already lost so much just to cabs alone bc they keep raising the fucking prices the second I say I'm going to the hospital and no one will take me for a normal fucking fare (they're not regulated here and they wanna make it even higher
you can donate through this