Zee
Paco Pooley
i Love this
Gogo ♔
i LOVE this ty for sharing
Zee
Yaaay.
Zee
I think some sounds harsh and bit insensitive but at this point I'm like fuck it, 2020 is already harsh and insensitive.
✴Sparkling✴
great list
Dakota 🐦‍⬛🪵
Amazing list
/usr/sbin/ennui
i feel personally attacked by 18. (and the desk has now been added to the list of things to declutter today)
KitchenBuddy
That's a good list!
DevinVaughn
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Lette
Well, this is a mixed bag. Some of it is very good advice, and some of it is terrible.
Lette
Some of it needs more context (the one about not talking to cops doesn't make sense, but I haven't watched the YouTube link yet), and some of it sounds like it's talking to a specific audience that is far from universal (e.g., the RPG metaphor in 66).
Lette
My favorite is 46, "Things that aren’t your fault can still be your responsibility."

My least favorite is 92, "You have vanishingly little political influence and every thought you spend on politics will probably come to nothing." There's privilege involved in being able to ignore politics.
DevinVaughn
Lette : yeah. Maybe in China you have zero say, but at least here you really can organize and effect change. But you have to not let yourself get brainwashed, sucked into political cult, or ruin your life with anxiety, hate, and rage.
DevinVaughn
Focusing on things you can get done seems very positive. And letting go worry on things you cant will help peace of mind
Allegory
Lette : "don't talk to cops" = "i want a lawyer" cops will often try to basically trick people into things they do not mean. you will probably never be in a situation where it is a problem for you. but the wrong cops, the wrong situation? it's a MASSIVE issue.
Lette
Allegory , thanks, there's the context I needed ;-)
Allegory
(i didn't watch that video, but this is also literally advice FROM A COP, to not talk to the cops because they will try to do underhanded shit)
Lette
Allegory , oh sure, but without any context, I wasn't sure if it meant to shun them at parties, to not report crimes, or... something closer to that.
Lette
I'm joking a bit. But my point is that this list has some good stuff, but not all 100 pieces of advice are gems.
Allegory
yeah, definitely! i more meant "this is a reason not to talk to cops, but i didn't watch that particular video so really...maybe there are more reasons" ;-)
Allegory
and agreed re: some things on that list are great, some things are...not so much. i also have Opinions re: the political bit. it's privilege, it's selfish, it's shortsighted. you may be _happier_ ignoring things, but you aren't participating in society or making things better for anyone else- and you're more likely to be blindsided by things that can fuck
Allegory
up your life in really serious ways.
Zee
If I was still living in my home country, 92 would ring true. Now that I live in a country where we change prime ministers like we change panties, I don't believe in it anymore (LOL)
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