it's similar to my childhood cat, alex after a while all he did was curl up and sleep, not even getting up for bathroom i was too young to be observant to it other than just seeing him sleeping in the puppy's crate to avoid being hassled
grateful that her fur's still clean/not matted, that she doesn't telegraph pain justnot used to having a very senior pet...family pets tended to go in very uh dramatic ailments or incidents besides alex whom i was too young to understand fully
yahh...having to balance out my worries with her comfort...knowing that a bad tummy day isnt worth the huge disruption of her routine and sitting for hours in a vet yanno? at least this time there's precedence, she got lethargic and lost her appetite like this before and bounced
yeah :c she's even snubbing chicken lunchmeat, her tum made a lil gurgle of discontent my poor baby has nausea today i guess... hopefully tomorrow she'll have gotten over it, if not, we may need to see emergency vet for some antinausea meddies
Oh no... I'm so sorry you're going through this and I'm hoping for the best. this is always so stressful and awful to deal with but bbgirl loves you tons clearly and you're best cat mama and we're all here for both of you
I'm so sorry. Even if it's the right thing to do it's never a good feeling and it hurts like hell. But you're wonderful and nieva knew that and was so lucky to have someone as good as you as her mom to give her such a great life
when she was younger and i was still living w my parents she used to jump onto the top of the fridge and smack my dad on the head whenever he came home from work
Oh Elle, I’m so sorry. I was hoping for better news. If you need anything please let me know. I know this is one of the hardest things to do. You have all my love and support. Miss Nieva was a joy and you two were lucky to have each other.
oh i'm so sorry... i know how damn hard it is having to make that call but you did right by her, i'm glad she got to have a wonderful long life with you and know how very loved she is
I also wish I could hug you I know it's not the same as being there but plenty of us will be here even thru Xmas break if not in person just to talk and/or distract.
ahhhh i just saw this. i'm so sorry elle, it's always such a difficult decision even when you know it's the right one. nieva was so wonderful and i always loved hearing about her exploits. she was very loved and i'm glad she knew that even as the end came. take care of yourself
my blessing this week is being told there's no in-office work so at least i don't have to endure people walking up to my desk to ask me how my weekend was to my face
when I had Oreo put down, it was after a long decline and suddenly he got worse and I couldn't take the thought of him suffering longer I called around to find a clinic open on sunday, because my parents refused, and I took him and had my name on the paperwork as his owner for the only time but then I went to work right after
When I had to put down choco it was her like 8th time at the vet that year alone. She was in a steady decline and I realized I wasn’t going to be able to continue to get her treatment. I cried for a week straight and took some time off work. I still cry. She was my baby, I raised her as a kitten to 20 years old.
I miss her every day. I’m glad you’re able to stay home so you can just... do what you need to do emotionally for yourself. We’re all here if you need it.
the love we feel for our pets is what unites us, even if it's from pain you aren't causing harm, there's nothing to apologize for and we are here because we love you okay
sounds like cranky nora, everyone else? perish. me, snuggly I'm glad you got to stay at home so you can just relax. and i love readin all this about her and her cute silly face
the house always feels so empty without the critters, im sorry you have to be alone especially right now. any kitty would be lucky to get to live with you
I think filling that space is important. When helios passed a few years ago, I think the only thing that really made the time after any less difficult was that I had Luna still. It really does help
just Old
why do u have to get old
i hate how light she is in my arms
be fat again nieva
so maybe she has a tummy upset rn
after a while all he did was curl up and sleep, not even getting up for bathroom
i was too young to be observant to it other than just seeing him sleeping in the puppy's crate to avoid being hassled
she's not shoving off to hide somewhere
the weight of her age is just overly present
justnot used to having a very senior pet...family pets tended to go in very uh
dramatic ailments or incidents
besides alex whom i was too young to understand fully
at least this time there's precedence, she got lethargic and lost her appetite like this before and bounced
im 36 now
she been dealin w my bs for so long
but you are doing beyond right it sounds like
my poor baby has nausea today i guess...
hopefully tomorrow she'll have gotten over it, if not, we may need to see emergency vet for some antinausea meddies
we're gonna go to the vet here in a few mins
It's just hard
There's not a whole lot to be done
All I can do is sit here and wait
And depending how intense any care would be on the girl I can't justify making her suffer
she knows you love her
it may just be a lil rough moment
this is always so stressful and awful to deal with
but bbgirl loves you tons clearly and you're best cat mama and we're all here for both of you
She had been meowing spicy a while ago but they sedated her
she's had a wonderful life with you elle, you've given each other so much
Her fussing my spicy grandma
I'm so sorry
it is definitely fine to cry and clean
I know how this feels and it's dreadful
she used to jump onto the top of the fridge and smack my dad on the head whenever he came home from work
it just hurts a lot and its supposed to
idk how ill get thru christmas break with an empty house
rest of brain: keep crying intermittently fuck u
gave myself a headache
let yourself feel it
but don't forget to take care of yourself
would you like to rest a little or watch something
Pulled it
like All her arm skin lmao
she was not a fan of belly pets
she was growling when they brought her in to see me the last time
unhappy camper when she's being handled
so at least i don't have to endure people walking up to my desk to ask me how my weekend was to my face
my head hurts still
have you been drinking enough water?
I called around to find a clinic open on sunday, because my parents refused, and I took him and had my name on the paperwork as his owner for the only time
but then I went to work right after
no one else should
because this fucking Sucks
you aren't causing harm, there's nothing to apologize for
and we are here because we love you okay
when other ppl have already beenand done this
drink and eat when you can
if you would like to share more memories of nieva and her fabulous face id love to see them
she was so fucking chatty
chirps and shouts
whenever i'd look over across the couch at her she'd mrrp
suddenly wake up and scream all her way to her food dish to eat
then come back purring and proud about it
how was her blep-game
did she forget how to cat.exe when she got buttscratches
and would swat you if you scritched her butt or chin
I'm glad you got to stay at home so you can just relax.
everything is overwhelming me
but theyre all contingent on Me replying
but
just being alone in this house is fucked
i love my space but i need a friend to meow at me