[relationships] an example of my boyfriend's decision making process

wakes up at 8: I'll leave for work at 9, get home by 7

at 8:30, when I offer to get his clothes for him: no, not now, I want to be lazy

at 10: I'll sleep for a little

he took Monday off, he needs to work today and tomorrow to make up the time

he could go in on time today, work until a reasonable hour, and come home

or he could lie around for ages and end up working late, which makes him tired, screws up his sleep system, and makes him moody

but he'd rather do what feels nice now than just suck it up briefly and feel better later

and hell, Monday, he was adamant that he was going to go to urgent care (eventually) then to work for a bit

he left at like 1, and surprise surprise, he didn't go to work

I think the thing that's getting to me right now, and which I will have to try to explain to him, is that the way it is, he gets to sleep in and rest and all while I'm working, but since he ends up working late and on weekends, it cuts into the time that we would have free to be together, when I'm not working