okay I actually gotta get back on the active searching horse, we're midway through the day and haven't heard back, I have to accept that I didn't get this one
Wednesday, the dude said it would be 48 hours for the HR manager to make a decision and he'd get back to me then, which is why I'm giving them through today before I fully determine I didn't get it
see, I was always told to send a thank you email (which I did) and then NOTHING ELSE because that's being aggressive and will get you bumped to the bottom of the list or blacklisted
they will NOT be mad at a short email saying “hi, i really appreciated our conversation last week. out of curiosity, when can i hear back about a decision? (name) estimated 48 hours but i know timelines can change.”
then there's this one which absoLUTELY not