[death] So. Cremation can take up to two weeks to actually happen, so we're going to do a wake gathering thingy on Thursday.

quiverby Should be coming home around the weekend in that case. Will let you know when I have a better idea.

Or Wednesday is the better bet.

Point in the funeral home's and possibly the state's) favor: gender options for the death certificate included male, female, nonbinary and Other.

Wow, that's neat.

Dad was looking for a specific older photo of my grandmother to go with the obit. We couldn't find it, so I just grabbed a... well, it's an older glamour shot of her, but it's the nicest portrait-type picture of her I knew of.

The one Dad was after? In the same frame, behind it.

(The photo I'm familiar with was possibly taken when I was as young as 4, so I don't remember ever seeing the other one before.)