That feeling where you don’t like someone but you’re like “just because we don’t get along doesn’t mean they’re a bad person. I’ll try to stay cool about it.” And then you find out they actually are a bad person

And you’re appalled

But also

In your head you’re pumping arms in victory and shouting “VINDICATION!!!”

i try not to be this person but. i am sometimes that person.

yeah.

Found out a customer I’ve always found annoying was making racist jokes

About how brown people are thin skinned

And I’m relieved that I can now just dislike him in peace

Usually I found that when I dislike someone it’s because they’ve tipped me off in some small way that they’re a shitty person

Dunno just like small things
Being overly assertive
Talking over other people
Ignoring how other people are feeling

And then it always turns out that those things are just characteristics of someone who has major narcissism or prejudice problems

Something to that

I have found that if I get instant bad vibes off a person, they are never wrong in the end

"Okay, I tried to be fair and reasonable, now I'm allowed to be a huge bitch."

I do also sometimes just dislike a person based on vibes that don't turn out to be because they're evil, and that's also okay

yeah sometimes they're just annoying in a totally normal way

i have a coworker like that

i mean he might turn out to be a weird racist but so far it seems like the underlying reason for his annoying behavior is just because he's sad and lonely

definitely always trust your vibes though. trust but verify

yeah. sometimes vibes just clash for no evil reasons

Sometimes someone is annoying because they’re a bad person and sometimes they’re just Like That

yup