[work] I was not hired for xml work

I have never been trained for xml work

yes, the current project I'm working on has xml stuff in it

but I still do not know how it works unless someone tells me

and asking about it is like pulling teeth, so I'm leery to just out of the blue ask

and then I get snippy emails about stuff I don't understand and, tbh, shouldn't be expected to understand

why

there's just a general lack of realization that just because you know where something is/what something is, that doesn't mean everyone does

"Oh, it's in the Sharepoint in the general specs, under /admin"

I go to the Sharepoint

I go to the admin folder

there is nothing labeled "general specs" or anything like that

am I supposed to divine that one of these 20 or so documents is the general specs? which one is it? be fucking specific