My nephew just emailed a picture of his younger brother's diploma with the subject "He was so proud of this." He lived with me to be able to graduate high school. He died of an undiagnosed, unknown heart defect in 2005 in his 20s. So of course, I am crying.

I am so sorry, Cajsa. What a tragedy to have lost him so young.

very sorry for your loss Cajsa, sending all my love and regards

I'm so sorry.

Way too young.

Thanks everyone. It's funny how grief refreshes itself with little reminders. I mean, it's been 18 years since he died. But reminders spark memories and boom!