It’s been a hot minute since I’ve been here and I can’t remember why I stopped coming, but I’m back and I live! Lots of things to update ya’ll on (if you’re interested) and happy to be back.

Hello darling!

interested in the update of course but I'm so happy you're back! lots of stuff has happened while you were gone

as for what you missed on my end: near the end of the year you vanished I got fired, endured the pandemic, got hired by a better company, got a bunch of bad health stuff and lost thousands of dollars, consolidated the private loans, folks got divorced so no more Tom, became gluten intolerant so no more fast food, still with my girlfriend, and sadly had to-

quit YouTube due to years of trauma inflicted by Tom crashing down onto me and thus need therapy....so the past few years have been mixed

Final : oh my gosh! You’ve been through a lot since we chatted last! I’m glad you’re taking care of yourself with therapy. I’m a big advocate of it myself. I hope things are starting to get better for you.

well trying to. thanks to dental stuff and getting fired during 2019, that kinda halted the plans. I won't be able to do anything for about another 2 months

All we can do is try. Even if it’s baby steps forward, or he’ll not moving at all, as long as we aren’t going backward, that’s a good thing. Sometimes just staying still as what we need before we can move forward.

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had to just stop moving forward and stay still to work through shit. Healing takes many forms

Updates yay!