Ci, salahkah aku kalo aku set very clear, brightest boundaries, tapi malah dilabel as a jerk? seolah2 aku kudu baik sama orang lain selalu. am I not worth the peace?
Lia Cupa
: haha... kayaknya beda context ya case kamu. Boundaries kalau for your inner peace yah sah” aja kan 😅 benernya being right is always right, cm ini wordingnya mgkn krg tepat 😅 (maklum fwd an) mgkn mksdnya better mengalah drpd mau menang. Krn blm tentu org yg kita deal with waras n bs terima. Yg waras ngalah dulu gt kali yah 🤣
Lia Cupa
: gpp sih, your inner peace & boundaries are more important now. Omongan / label org lain itu uda di luar kontrol kita sih. Mending kontrol our respond aja 🙏 drpd nanti runyam nanggepin yg mboten” cape ati, tenaga, waktu dll- rugi di kita 😅 disumpel cwimie piye? 🤣
Sometimes peace is a better option than being right..
morningrhema
Perhaps better wording :
Sometimes peace is a better option than winning an arguments.