SKL what happened last weekend. So my friends & I went to HITC Manila nga. There were 15 of us. Oo, 15. Isang mini school bus. Part of our group was a good friend of ours na mommy na. Last time namin siyang nakasama sa isang music festival was I think 2015 pa. Anyway, when Zedd's set started na isa siya sa mga nag-crayola. As in breakdown. 1/n

Of course everyone was wondering bakit siya umiiyak. Then she said, that she misses her old younger self. She misses us. She got so engrained into the daily struggles of family life and raising a kid na nakalimutan na niya iyong feeling na kasama iyong friends niya at nagsasaya. She loves her family so much that is a fact. 2/n

Pero siyempre the daily struggles and of course the pandemic years were never easy. Lahat naman tayo nag-struggle but I think it was harder for her. So ayun, iyak siya ng iyak sa tuwa kasi feeling niya nahanap niya ulit iyong dating siya. She loves being married and being a parent pero I think parents/wives also need a break kahit sandali lang. 3/3

parents, lalo na yung mga nanay, need time for themeselves din. it's ok for them to be selfish kahit isang gabi once in a while. ang ganda. nakakatuwa.

also, kamusta yung set ni Zedd? Balita ko umuuga daw yung lupa na parang konting talon na lang lulubog na kayo sa Manila Bay. hahaha

I can totally relate to this. Peak pandemic was ROUGH. We all need me-time talaga, best to not be co-dependent with your family/partner.

virtual hug to your mommu friend

ynigo : I'm sure it's very hard for parents kasi may buhay nang nakafepende sa iyo pero siyempre tao ka rin lang. May mga panahon na kailangan mo rin ng quick respite from.the daily struggles kahit ilang oras lang.

ynigo : About Zedd's set, DA BEST talaga papi. EDM nation talaga ang Pinas 'di lang halata pero everybody was so into it nung siya na. Kita mong tuwang-tuwa siya sa crowd. Ilang beses nga niya tayong binida sa IG niya. 'Tsaka true iyong umaalog ang lupa. Ako una nakaramdam sa amin e at nagulat ako kasi ramdam mo talaga iyong bounce ng lupa. HAHA.

Lars ☑️ : Me-time talaga ang need alo na sa parents, I think. Singlws nga nag-struggle, iyong mga parents na may kids pa kaya. Ang bigat kaya nung may buhay na, nakadepende sa'yo.

Q Tsuki-Neko🌙😼 : Shelemet sizt. 😊

huuuuggggsss sa iyong mommy friend.

Na-experience ko to nung 1 y.o. ang anak ko, tapos wala kaming maid. Nasanay ako nang nagtatrabajo sa office, not doing household chores. One time, naiyak ako at tinanong ko sarili ko kung hanggang sa pagpupunas na lang ba ako ng wiwi ng anak sa sahig? Bumalik ako sa work nung nagkaroon na ulit kami ng maid. It's not bec. I don't love my kid, pero namiss...

2. ko talaga magwork, be with my friends, at hindi nakakulong lang sa bahay! Pag pumupunta nga ako sa grocery para bumili ng gatas nya, masaya na ako na makalabas kahit sandali lang! Sa bahay naman, pag nagpapahinga ako from my chores, nagyoyosi (yes, I used to smoke!) ako sa terrace, yun ang Me time ko! Minsan sinasamahan ko ng vodka-tonic yung yosi! lol

As a wife: totoo to. Minsan you need to separate yourself as a wife at maging tao ka rin. Big huhs kay friend ❤️

should always make it a point na may me time kahit parents na.

notNicole : ❤️❤️❤️