My grocer/wanna be friend just texted me to say hi. I don’t know how to take this attention. Am I being stalked?

What do I do if he comes to the door (without groceries)?

Ask him to wait in the lobby.

mimi : Pretty much any one who wants to get into the building can get in. So many couriers and deliveries going on.

Hmmm.

Depends if you want the attention
If you do but away from your house suggest meeting for coffee
If you don't Tell him and be very clear...

>-xəpuɐ-< : I’m not comfortable with having anyone in my apartment at the moment.

I don’t want to encourage him...

Then tell him... if he continues then your stalker might be correct and you can take legal action...

i would be very cautious too especially when he knows where you live.

I think I’ll be passive-aggressive for a while and see what happens...

maybe he's just lonely. this is a lonely world. these people giving you advice, are they friend irl?

Cream : Could be he’s lonely, but he doesn’t seem to be the type who has trouble making friends.

Joan_W : there's a ton of evil people who seem okay.