LOVE☆STRUCK
Hey is there a way to leave a server you made without destroying the entire server?
LOVE☆STRUCK
The people in the Netbop Server have gotten to the point of screenshotting harmless character meta posts to talk shit about them behind people's backs when I made this server for us to not be bullied and I'm not cool with it
that omelas kid
promote someone else to owner
that omelas kid
iirc
corpse bride
idk man, i'd honestly nuke it if all they're doing is using it to bully other people
LOVE☆STRUCK
I don't want them to lose all their shit but I will not be in charge of nor facilitate a space that is actively being used to bully others including people who are still IN the server AND they bitch every time I post meta on Tumblr too so it's like you are also shit talking ME
LOVE☆STRUCK
They're using it to share other stuff too but I'm like. Kind of on the same page
Haunted Boobs
Yeah if you make someone else the server owner, you can exit without it affecting anything
corpse bride
like, if that's what they wanna do with their time, they can go through the trouble to make their own server lmaooooooo
Maidstrong
oh boy
Tallorance
corpse bride
but you are probably more gracious than i am in that regard, Luc
Tallorance
the second part says you gotta transfer the server to someone first
LOVE☆STRUCK
Hmm
Debates doing that
Tallorance
honestly if they're bullying people i'd cap them bullying people and delete the whole server but i'm also a little bastard man
LOVE☆STRUCK
I thought they were just shit talking characters tbh I didn't know they were actually screenshotting and tearing down people's character meta posts int today
LOVE☆STRUCK
*until
LOVE☆STRUCK
It was annoying but whatever when it was just characters
It's fucking uncool when dragging real people INCLUDING ME?? into it
siwas ✨
First, block the people talking shit so they can;t dm you. Then transfer it to someone else and yeet yourself out of that toxicity
ʙʟɪɴᴋ★ɢᴏɴᴇ
gotta say I would also probably nuke it. if you want to be generous give them 24 hour notice so they can save any actual content from the server and then burn it down
corpse bride
yeah, like, i don't tolerate that kind of behavior, and in my mind, allowing the server to continue existing for that purpose feels too much like enabling, to me
corpse bride
yeah, what glamstar said! give them notice, tell them WHY you are nuking the server, and then don't look back
ʙʟɪɴᴋ★ɢᴏɴᴇ
but I can't tell you what's most appropriate, I'm not in the situation. just sorry ppl persist in sucking
ʙʟɪɴᴋ★ɢᴏɴᴇ
they just keep sucking constantly forever
corpse bride
idk if they'll actually self-reflect on their behavior, but at least it will show that there are Consequences for it
LOVE☆STRUCK
Is there a way where I cna like.

Shit down everyone's ability to reply to the server but give them a 24 hour warning
Like if I manage permissions could I lock it down for 24 hrs so ONLY saving can happen
ʙʟɪɴᴋ★ɢᴏɴᴇ
that I don't know unfortunately
ʙʟɪɴᴋ★ɢᴏɴᴇ
it's possible? or like
Tallorance
oh you could make it so only you can send messages
ʙʟɪɴᴋ★ɢᴏɴᴇ
you could maybe set all channels to mod response only
ʙʟɪɴᴋ★ɢᴏɴᴇ
yeah that
LOVE☆STRUCK
Yeah that's what I was thinking
ʙʟɪɴᴋ★ɢᴏɴᴇ
you'd have to do it by channel then which is annoying but
Tallorance
that's something you can do channel by channel or you can manage it in roles
ʙʟɪɴᴋ★ɢᴏɴᴇ
oh neat
ʙʟɪɴᴋ★ɢᴏɴᴇ
tal with the lore
Tallorance
https://i.imgur.com/Kki5col.png
Tallorance
it's here in the server settings
LOVE☆STRUCK
I just do not understand having the gall to shit on people like that after spending weeks crying about non-netboppers bullying them
ʙʟɪɴᴋ★ɢᴏɴᴇ
yeah that's fucking gnarly man idk
Silvie
normally I would suggest booting the nasties and making new very clear rules about how that ain't gonna be tolerated
Silvie
but honestly it sounds like this space has been dragging on you
Silvie
so I'd just nuke it. pchoo
Haze Arquebus
yeah you can set up a role that restricts posting permissions, give that to everyone, and then say your piece about yeah y'all got 24 hours before fuck this
LOVE☆STRUCK
Yeah, the sad part is that the minority of folks are the ones who are the bother, or else I'd just kick people out

I'm considering leaving the two nonoffenders their roles to speak bc all they do is talk about their OCs harmlessly in the OC chat and don't deserve to have their shit wrecked
Tallorance
accidental replurk unreplurked,
Tallorance
i feel bad for the people who are being normal because it's just. great job assholes you ruined it for the nice people
LOVE☆STRUCK
Yeah exactly
LOVE☆STRUCK
It's not their fault but it sucks that I keep having to hear how someone who likes Vicious or other minor characters doesn't feel comfy in the chat anymore and has to leave
🥨depretzels🥨
yeah im not cool with getting bullied out of a space we created for people who were victims of other bullying
LOVE☆STRUCK
like tbh i haven't spoken in it since I was bullied out the first week but i am an avoidant person
🥨depretzels🥨
but ive also like
been trying to be mature about it and not say anything because at the end of the day it's just Peoples Opinions About Fictional Characters, but they're trying to make it personal now lmao
🥨depretzels🥨
and its at such a point where im like
🥨depretzels🥨
'luc please dont go in there, it's gonna set you off'
🥨depretzels🥨
and he'd be right to be set off
🥨depretzels🥨
but i watched them bully one of our other friends out of it too and im so mad
🥨depretzels🥨
like they'll be trying to offer their input to the conversation, and everyone else will just go silent... and then pull the "Well, anyways..." and continue talking like theyre not there
triska
i mean
triska
if there's a specific person being a bitch, kick them
triska
but if the whole group sucks yeah just close it
LOVE☆STRUCK
yeah exactly
it's only the two OC lovers who are not being dicks at this point so
🥨depretzels🥨
yeah there are two beings of light that are there to have fun and talk about OCs but the other people are garbage
𝓜𝒶𝑔𝑒𝓁𝒾𝓃𝑔༢࿔ྀુ*
That really sucks. :c Why people gotta be such dicks about things and ruin it for everyone else? I'm sorry that's happening.
LOVE☆STRUCK
yeah i have no idea since AGAIN
LOVE☆STRUCK
the WHOLE POINT
LOVE☆STRUCK
was "we're being bullied by others, lets create a space where we can like this thing together"
LOVE☆STRUCK
AND THEN YOU START BEING LIKE WELL THEY DON'T LIKE IT THE WAY I LIKE IT SO FUCK THEM
LOVE☆STRUCK
these kids are over 20, I'm p sure there's no one under 22 in the chat, and i'm just like
LOVE☆STRUCK
what the fuck is wrong with you
LOVE☆STRUCK
you have no excuse to act like high schoolers fandom courtesy is just a thing of the past i guess
𝓜𝒶𝑔𝑒𝓁𝒾𝓃𝑔༢࿔ྀુ*
Oof
LOVE☆STRUCK
i honestly think, and that's hte saddest part is like
LOVE☆STRUCK
the real problem is that it's actually like two people who are just bullies and good at leading folks into the herd mentality
LOVE☆STRUCK
and then the other people don't want to disagree with them bc they don't want to lose their space and think they're cool when they aren't being assholes
LOVE☆STRUCK
it's that domineering personality where it's like 'well if we express dissent, they'll turn on us'
🥨depretzels🥨
yeah. pretty much. :/
Frostbites🐺
Ngl I wish y’all could just make a whole new server and invite those two to it and be like here, be free
LOVE☆STRUCK
Yeah tbh they really don't deserve it hgudsg i FEEL BAD NUKING IT COS ALL THEY'RE DOING IS TALKING ABOUT THEIR FANKIDS AND AU OCS
LOVE☆STRUCK
they're not hurting anyone
LOVE☆STRUCK
so i think i will at the VERY least leave them and their chats up
Silvie
maybe what you can do after the 24 hours are up is like. basically just kick everyone but the oc people LOL
Silvie
nuke the other channels
triska
honestly the funniest thing would be to assign roles to the Assholes and put them in their own locked channel called "Bitch Containment"
triska
but that's shit-stirring, don't do this, i'm just giggling to myself
corpse bride
lmao yeah, you could just kick the assholes, but it seems like way more work and idk if you can even keep up enough engagement with just two people, but that's an option
corpse bride
and at least they have DMs so they can just... still keep in touch afterward
LOVE☆STRUCK
i actually messaged them and they were willing to take the channel from me
LOVE☆STRUCK
so now i'm free
triska
freemdom
LOVE☆STRUCK
FREEMDOM
LOVE☆STRUCK
no more of htis shit
LOVE☆STRUCK
i just. do what y'all want on your own time i just can't facilitate it
Frostbites🐺
Oh thank god
boo(f)
oh i was gonna give you pointers for total server lockdown since we do "no posting, anywhere" commonly on blaseball discord
boo(f)
tl;dr:
> Server Settings
> Roles
> Default Permissions (aka @everyone)
> Post Messages set to X
boo(f)
Admins can always bypass that
LOVE☆STRUCK
that's so smart and i'll definitely have to keep it in mind for later
boo(f)
so you could do that, go "fyi this server sucks y'all is rude bitches to people so i'm nuking the server in 24 hours" and they can sit and spin
boo(f)
yea I'M GLAD THE PEOPLE WHO WERE HAVING FUN AND NOT BEING CATTY ASSHOLES TOOK IT OFF YOUR HANDS it seemed, more stressful than not for you
LOVE☆STRUCK
YEAH.. cos i hate ruining people's fun i really do
boo(f)
there is a difference between ruining people's fun and enabling toxic fandom BS and it sounds like a LOT of the server quickly became the latter, frankly
boo(f)
i think the other people would have understood if you nuked it on those principles
LOVE☆STRUCK
right
LOVE☆STRUCK
WELL I HOPE
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