(especially since it's about Not Saying Things, or at least saying them in such a manner that it doesn't end up read and become part of a conversation, and there's no real way to show improvement to other people on that one, since it's about things they don't get a chance to read despite it being in a semi-public place.)
BernieWiseman
Also I did confirm my instinct, meaning I am not allowed/supposed to tag the TDM, though if you would like a thread elsewhere I would be more than happy to do so!
Tanks4theMemory
Am in a brighter mood now (thank you for listening, at least); the offer applies to you as well, for whenever you have the time. I did enjoy the D-P thread, when that happened!
[Unrelated mental health discussion inside.]