People amaze me sometimes. I had 2 friends that were giving me such a hard time because I wasn't making myself more available to them and actively inviting them to do things in SL. I spent WAY too much time explaining to them that between my depression and health issues, SL interactions took too much out of me, especially being the one to initiate/make plans

And now I've made multiple attempts to hang out with them, engage them, etc and NOTHING. They didn't even respond to me when I wished them a happy new year in our shared discord server.

I hate it when people lay guilt trips like that. You do you; you're under no obligation to be available to anyone.

Yeah. I'm done feeling like I'm a bad friend and not trying hard enough. I do my best and that's going to have to be good enough from here on out.

That sounds ridiculous on their part.

So, as someone who usually does not reach out to my friends - I also do not get pissy when they don't reach out to me - I figure that most of them are like me, so yeah.....

Fearyfox(Reyn) : that makes sense!