為什麼女兒可能會開始跟男生打砲，做爸爸的會講出「失去女兒」這種話呀？

自己想幹女兒？

（我講話粗俗但是直接）

這種把女兒視為所有物的心態真糟糕

我也不知道0.0

也不是這麼說

嗯……男權遺毒

我想他是無法接受失去女兒的「處女膜」

也可能是很單純父親發現女兒長大了。。很溫馨的

Cat Stevens - Oh Very Young

會講這種話的人通常都是希望女兒結婚當晚入洞房時才第一次有跟「異性」性接觸（這種人也無法接受同性性交的）

Oh very young
What will you leave us this time
You're only dancing on this Earth for a short while
And though your dreams may toss and turn you now
They will vanish away like your daddy's best jeans
Denim Blue fading up to the sky

And though you want him to last forever
You know he never will
(You know he never will)
And the patches make the goodbye harder still

Oh very young
What will you leave us this time
There'll never be a better chance to change your mind
And if you want this world to see a better day

Cat Stevens的Oh Very Young 描述父親突然發現女兒已經長大要離去的祝詞

崖上的波妞