Ok, quick question while I do my AC post. Do I have to create a pairing comment for Rawne as an inmate? I can, but it feels kind of redundant. And no one mentioned it, so it slipped through the cracks.

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Ok, I'm going to post my AC commend and create a pairing comment to link to, which I will add later.

It's not going to be immediate, I'm sorry, but I have work

but it will happen by this evening

I did it faster than I thought, so I have a thing up

oh feel free to just hold off until you have time to write the pairing comment! that sounds easier than having to remember to go back to edit later

no, I just slapped together a pairing comment, though I'm not sure if it's any good

i know you said he's likely going to graduate really soon, so

I managed to find some words, I just honestly don't know if I need one or not

I will hopefully have a graduation explanation or whatever it's called up by Wednesday, but every time I think I'll have ample energy, it always goes away quickly, so I honestly have no clue

and I'm sorry if I'm causing any confusion, but if I don't do things when I think of them, they tend to go down the memory hole and get forgotten

no confusion caused here! <3 i get how it'd feel redundant/silly in a case like yours; it's really just to make sure people aren't going multiple months without one up

ok, that makes sense

I guess part of it is that I wish I'd gotten a reminder before this? because I can see why it's wanted but I just completely forgot until I saw the bit on the AC form

if you'd gone months without having one up, you definitely would have! but it's only been a few weeks since rawne went back on the unpaired list, and i don't like to pounce on people immediately

and also from our end, it's just simpler/easier to have that reminder in the monthly AC form, as opposed to continually scanning for people without pairing comments and poking them all individually

ah

I guess I assumed it was more of an immediate issue, then

and I definitely didn't mean just you/the mods in terms of reminders! I just have a thing about forgetting things/believing things wrongly that makes me a little on edge when I realize I've been missing things

if it helps to hear, it's definitely not just a You Thing, nor is it a big deal at all! pretty much every month we have at least one person who forgot to put up an info comment when they apped/their pairing partner dropped/their character graduated and needed that reminder on the AC form to do so

it does, a little

I'm just not handling things coming up suddenly these days, even minor ones. That part's a me problem, I know, but stress doesn't let up enough for me to really deal with it

it's a really easy thing to let slip, and we're not over here grumbling about how DARE people forget their pairing comments!!!

it's really not that, it's a complicated ball of my own neuroses that hit all at once, basically

happens to the best of us! i'm glad you recognize that it's that rather than thinking we're all mad at you or that you did something wrong, though <3