[anxiety] what's really shit is arguing with someone online and realizing that the root cause is something I have no desire to share with an internet stranger

good thing it's some random so I don't care if they think I'm dumb!

here

but god, yeah, I did overreact to a percieved judgment and someone telling me they knew how I was, but it has its root in both anxiety and the toxic ex-roommate and I'm not telling tumblr that

though I do think "you're defensive, so therefore I have a point, you just won't admit it/need to examine yourself" is a lousy argument