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[ableism, commissions, and Fan Communities]i just need to vent incoherently for a second
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https://images.plurk.com/1mPbpzz1R6uJM6XOJjp4RT.png this very reasonable well phrased take was posted and i very much agree with it
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and yet
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everyone and their mother comes in to be like
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SCAMMERS ARE BAD!! ARTISTS WHO SCAM SHOULD BE CALLED OUT
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and it's like no fucking shit, sherlock, no one is saying scammers shouldn't be called out
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and otehr comments like "if you're not ready to handle the commitment you shouldn't offer commissions"
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IF YOU AREN'T READY TO HAVE TO WAIT A LONG TIME FOR A COMMISSION FROM A DISABLED PERSON
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YOU SHOULD NOT BE COMMISSIONING THEM
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I HAVE HAD PLENTY OF EXCELLENT CUSTOMERS WHO HAD TO WAIT MONTHS FOR COMMISSIONS THAT I BUSTED MY ASS ON AND THEY WERE HAPPY WITH THE WORK BECAUSE RATHER THAN KILL MYSELF TRYING TO GET IT DONE ON TIME AND COMPROMISE ON QUALITY
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I DID IT TO THE BEST OF MY ABILITY AND GAVE THEM A PRODUCT THEY WERE HAPPY TO HAVE AND I WAS PROUD OF GIVING THEM
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commissioned art used to take YEARS but you fucks have been so coddled by mass-production and on-demand that you get pissy if an artist doesn't have a sketch for you in less than a week no matter what they're going through
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or even if you're number 7 on a list of 10
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you aren't being scammed by someone who has a longer wait time than other artists and if you aren't ready to accept their longer wait time, don't commission them
Sir Nyx-A-Lot
I would MUCH RATHER you be happy and healthy over having a piece of art. All day every day.
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and LITERALLY NO ONE in this thread is saying that fucking scammers shouldn't be called out or that you shouldn't be angry if someone stole your fucking money or that artists don't have an obligation to communicate
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but people keep saying that simply taking longer makes disabled people scammers and THAT is what we are saying is ableist
corpse bride
god, yeah, i will wait forever for quality art if it means knowing the commissioner is not killing themself to meet some arbitrary deadline
corpse bride
and you have always been upfront about wait times/have a public queue that's easily accessible so it's not like you're ghosting clients or anything
Gayple
:|a I wonder if fandom in general could benefit from a primer on "this is how you tell the difference between a scammer and someone with a disability that makes their work slow"
Gayple
like, the difference seems obvious to me, but
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/gestures
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t's ableist to say that someone shouldn't be an artist accepting money for commissions just because they don't have a 2week turnaround
corpse bride
that honestly sounds like a good idea
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whoa my internet really just fucked there
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it would probably help SOME people but the thing about it is that like
corpse bride
also, it's like, do ya'll know how fucking long it took for the sistine chapel to be completed? do you?
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people who WANT to be victimized won't care/see it that way
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like a lot of the people spouting this rhetoric legitimately don't want to accommodate for disabled artists
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they want ONLY artists who can get things out in a 2week minimum to offer commissions
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and it's like okay sharona, i'll offer myself as an example. Let's say I stop offering commissions because I don't have that same turnaround 100% of the time.
I don't have a car, so I can't get a job, in addition to the fact that i have some kind of chronic fatigue issue.
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so what the fuck am i supposed to do to pay my rent
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cos i'd whore myself out but it's not as easy as it sounds
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it's like damnit yall EVERYONE hates scammers, disabled people get scammed all the time bc our disabilities are taken advantage of
corpse bride
good art takes time, and even for people that aren't disabled, they're not machines, you don't just "insert money, art come out"
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no one thinks you shouldnt call out scammers!!
Haunted Boobs
NGL, this is why I only offer commissions to people I know, who know all my health crap.
𝑑𝑖𝑎𝑚𝑜𝑛𝑑 𝑑𝑢𝑠𝑡
honestly if i ordered a commission and the artist cant do it in the promised time, all i want is communication and i would p much wait months
𝑑𝑖𝑎𝑚𝑜𝑛𝑑 𝑑𝑢𝑠𝑡
folks get sick, lose side jobs, have rl issues
𝑑𝑖𝑎𝑚𝑜𝑛𝑑 𝑑𝑢𝑠𝑡
those folks include artists!!! give em a break
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this is exactly why a lot of disabled artists, including myself, end up in stronger financial distress rather than offer commissions
bc even if we DONT take too long we can still be construed as scammers JUST for being disabled/poor
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oh you are offering commissions because you got hit with a new medical bill?
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which is like dont atrribute malice to something that's innocently explained
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you must be a scammer and not a REAL artist, you only offer commissions when you have a bill
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....GOD
𝑑𝑖𝑎𝑚𝑜𝑛𝑑 𝑑𝑢𝑠𝑡
ITS LIKE YOU NEED MONEY TO PAY THAT BILL
𝑑𝑖𝑎𝑚𝑜𝑛𝑑 𝑑𝑢𝑠𝑡
HOW DARE
𝑑𝑖𝑎𝑚𝑜𝑛𝑑 𝑑𝑢𝑠𝑡
when else does one offer fucking commission aside from when they want or need money like wtf
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and communication IS important! and so many of us have said that! but the thread is full of folks acting like we said you should just be ok with disabled artists up and disappearing!!!
triska
people are so fucking stupid
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and it's so frustrating because there are PLENTY of abled artists who DO offer commissions with a short turnaround
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just commission THEM instead!!!
𝑑𝑖𝑎𝑚𝑜𝑛𝑑 𝑑𝑢𝑠𝑡
ah twitter. where reading comprehension goes to die
triska
insert that one tumblr post
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"the reading comprehension on this site is piss poor"
"how dare you say we piss on the poor"
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akskfog SCREAMS
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YES LMAO
𝑑𝑖𝑎𝑚𝑜𝑛𝑑 𝑑𝑢𝑠𝑡
i cackled
MundersOWundus
can I just parachute in to drop a testimonial about bearing with you and it being worth the wait
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cause i just did
kilmer.
i truly just do not understand people who get mad abt this kind of thing like. i waited over a year for a fic commission that was supposed to take a month. it's..... fine? it's fine. it did not affect me. i wasn't being scammed. sometimes Things Are Hard
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MundersOWundus : I APPRECIATE THE TESTIMONY those commissions came out great imo,,,,
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THEY DID once I get paid I would like to ask you for ddquest stuff
bread singalong
I am asking this only because I have commissioned people so few times in my life (and each time was great) but - what would be the hallmarks of a scammer?
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lack of communication altogether is the biggest first clue (not always reliable because some people have confrontation issues, but people SHOULD either have some kind of public timeline or should respond to your messages at some point)
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there are also some instances in which like. you might receive a delayed response, but if you are sending several messages over a period of time and not receiving any response that may be the time to at least investigate other people's experiences with the artist
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also in general I advise folks not to commission minors OR to only commission them for an amount of money they would not be afraid to lose, and that is because IF they try to grift you it is incredibly hard to get through that situation without accidentally doxxing a child OR getting targeted by their parents
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or otherwise, parents/guardians could seize funds, etc....
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if you are going to give money to a minor on the internet, especially one you suspect may need the money because of the safety of their situation, i would advise only doing it to an amount you would be comfortable donating, because it is incredibly risky to commission a minor
𝔪𝔢𝔪𝔢𝔫𝔱𝔬💀𝔪𝔬𝔯𝔞𝔶
man as long as people are up front about possibly being slow/taking a long time, I'm fine with it. if I need something quickly, I will just... not commission those people. why is this so hard for people to grasp
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yeah exactly! also if you have a deadline for your commissions and state it up front, most artists will accept/refuse based on the deadline
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NOT DIFFICULT
Gayple
yeah that is exactly it. It's not that hard to go "Hey, this is a birthday present, I need it by September 21st." or "hey, this is art for a murdergame, I need it by April 1st since that's opening day."
Gayple
and if they can't do it, they can't do it and will say so
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yessss exactly!
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it might be disappointing, but
son boy allowed
god yeah this terrifies me
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I'm very fortunate because my regular commissioners ALL repeatedly urge me to take care of myself and not rush, many of them are used to long wait-times and feel the end result is worth the wait
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but I just get so freaked out when it takes me awhile to get through a queue like "what if people think I'm scamming them"
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right? but even though the regulars are good, it makes it scary to take from new customers
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and i cant guarantee folks are reading my TOS...
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And how much DOES my ToS protect me legally, anyway, it's all scary
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plus i dont want that on my reputation, just the way I dont want to get targeted by the purity police for drawing short people
corpse bride
yeah, like, if i'm recommending a commission artist to someone, i'll also say something like, "hey, they have longer turnaround times, but do quality work and are very communicative" so if someone needs a speedier artist, they can look elsewhere
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yeah!
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AND LIKE i know i'm not the best at communication all the time- or like. I'll always ANSWER but i'm not the best at getting updates out
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but that's why I made the trello queue!
corpse bride
it also, like, upsets me when people assume that all styles take the same amount of time to complete
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YEAH
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like sometimes someone is gonna get their sketches out faster than their colored pieces
corpse bride
like, someone expecting a full body, fully rendered digital illustration in the same amount of time as a shitpost sketch, like get the fuck outta here!
corpse bride
doesn't matter that it's digital, that shit takes a lot of time to plan out, and especially if you, as a commissioner, take a long ass time to respond to artist inquiries at each step, then ofc it's gonna take longer
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(actually part of why i switched to only colored and shaded color is bc they are similar amounts of time to complete)
corpse bride
i wonder how often some of these commissioners leave out that part in their complaint ie. leaving the artist in read for like two weeks or something
corpse bride
you want the illustration done right, you need to give your approval at each stage! communication is a two-way street!
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yeah, i bet that IS part of it for some people
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though i also saw another reply to this noting that scammers have coopted the language of disabled people
corpse bride
like i feel bad if i don't respond to the artist within 24 hours, yet i'm totally fine with not hearing from them for two weeks lfhsalfhaslafshk
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which is actually why it IS tough to answer bread singalong 's question, because.... a lot of scammers will do their best to mimic that same language as an excuse
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so like one of the only other hallmarks is actual testimony from other users, if a lot of people have complained about having their money stolen and then the artist went unresponsive, or if there's a Buyer Beware out on them
corpse bride
because i don't expect any kind of work to be finished before two weeks, unless the artist is known for being insanely fast with their turnaround times
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god people like Ruka and Zee have an insanely admirable turnaround time and i think they're amazing for it
corpse bride
YEAH, I WAS ACTUALLY THINKING OF ZEE
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And once upon a time, I was actually able to keep to that
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the problem was, I was doing those commissions that fast at the same time as doing all my schoolwork, which was self-producing and publishing comic books
corpse bride
though i usually get in late on the queue, anyway, so i already know i have a bit of a wait, even with a fast turnaround time when they actually get to my commission, and that's perfectly fine
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so I really fucked myself up, and now I gotta stop myself before i get... the way I was back then
corpse bride
yeah, no, don't do that to yourself again ksadfhsakah
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which was usually being so exhausted that I was afraid to go to sleep because I was scared I wouldn't wake up it's not healthy
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but people who CAN manage that without fuckign themselves up? more power to them
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I still wish they weren't ENCOURAGED to do so because I worry it means they aren't taking breaks for themselves but i'm not their dads
corpse bride
yeah, same, but i can say, in Zee's case, that they do not work on weekends and they do schedule vacation time
bread singalong
gotcha gotcha - that sounds reasonable.
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ugh i envy THAT too, being able to actually get yourself to do that
corpse bride
i had to wait a bit for my turn in the queue to come up a couple times because they had planned time off, and i was like "cool, enjoy your rest!"
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YEAH i honestly really wish I could give you more advice on that Carbon bc i mean, that is a genuine worry
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people don't have as much money to throw around riskily as in the early 00s
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BUT YEAH LIKE. man. I should really have taken a page out of Zee's book in college
corpse bride
i think, also, it might be a good idea if you are trying out a new artist and haven't gotten any word of mouth reviews, to just get something small from them at first?
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i actually don't think i've ever had Zee added bc afaik we have never been in games together but i think they are so cool
bread singalong
it's all good! I mean, like I said, I rarely commission people - it's either friends that I already know are cool or it's people who have a lot to vouch for them
corpse bride
so then if you do get scammed, you won't be out much money?
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oh that's really smart Rikki
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full stop: i've never actually commissioned anyone
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for non-embroidery
bread singalong
and YEAH Rikki that's a great idea
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i... haven't... ever had the money to... i've only done art trades and that was a while back
but Rikki has EXPERIENCE
corpse bride
afsjkaksjfaks I STILL MOSTLY RELY ON artists on Plurk either advertising for each other or directing me to other folks on Tumblr or Twitter
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ALSO LIKE, if you DO get scammed i think that's plenty fair reason to be publicly like. even without starting a witchhunt, if someone legitimately took your money and never got back to you about anything, you should definitely be vocal about it!! those guys hurt legitimate artists too
corpse bride
like i've only commissioned a few other artists on Tumblr and like one person on Twitter, even though i follow the art commission bot on there
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and people rely on Buyer Bewares to know who isn't treating people right... it's just that some folks have gotten out of control with it
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MAN THAT REMINDS ME
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once when I did $5 post-it note commissions and didn't get back to them in like. four days bc i did it right before i had a series of tests in school and was like 'ok i'll get to the second half after my tests'
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and someone commissioned me for one, and then just later was like EXCUSE ME IF YOU AREN'T GOING TO DO THIS I NEED MY MONEY BACK??? I AM IN A TIGHT SPOT AND I NEED MY MONEY BACK and i was like I... offered the commissions because I needed the money and i will get to you after these tests are done, it has only been days and it was $5
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and they ended up trying to file a paypal dispute and being like "i didn't know what else to do" so i just refunded it
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and i was just like yo... the fuck... if you were gonna be stressing this hard over $5 and four days when I promised you i would get it done as soon as these tests were over....
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so like buyers: if you're in a position where losing less than $40 in a week would put you in a bind, please don't commission people, because those artists are usually putting out for those pithy commissions because they're either desperate or trying to be kind and affordable
corpse bride
yeah, like, art is a luxury, i'm sorry?
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iT IS
corpse bride
if you don't have the disposable income or are otherwise not financially responsible, don't commission people for custom art?
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and it sucks. like it really sucks, because EVERYONE should have access to art and we as a global society don't do enough to give the public and the poor access to art that enriches their lives
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but unfortunately, artists need and deserve to live
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AND THAT'S THE THING
corpse bride
this is why i see a lot of artists also do the whole "only send invoices" so that THEY don't get scammed by shitty commissioners that try to do the paypal dispute
corpse bride
and essentially get free art while simultaneously causing an artist to lose access to their paypal account
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people are always saying "if you can't handle the commitment of commissions at a fast pace, you shouldn't offer commissions" and never "if you don't have the disposable income, you shouldn't commission people for pieces from scratch"
corpse bride
and i think part of that kinda falls into the whole "if you've never worked customer service, then you don't know what it's like dealing with shitty customers"
corpse bride
if you've never seriously attempted to pursue some sort of art or craft, then you don't know how much time, training, and effort goes into it
LOVE☆STRUCK
exactly it's not like we fart these things out
corpse bride
like, there was a time when i used to draw a lot, too, but i realized it would take way more effort and training than i was willing to devote to the craft, and i preferred writing anyway, so i gave up on it
LOVE☆STRUCK
well i mean i actually do draw really fast when i get down to it bUT I HAVE AN ATTENTION SPAN PROBLEM and a fatigue issue so like the time people wait is usually the time it takes for me to recover between drawing pieces
corpse bride
and that's why i'm perfectly happy to commission other people to draw things for me: because i know how much fucking work goes into it
cranberry sauce
honestly as long as the artist keeps me updated/lets me know what's going on I don't really get mad and I kinda wish that was more the norm
corpse bride
like, a lot of y'all went to school for that shit, just like i went to school for honing my writing craft: no mater what kind of art you devote yourself too, it takes a lot of time and practice to get to that level of skill
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i also wish it
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nd like... i do think there's a lot of factors that go into it, including consumerism and how used to instant gratification we as a society have gotten
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but I have also noticed like... a bunch of proxy-fears
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and what I mean by that is
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people speaking out against scammers/accusing disabled people of being scammers... without ever having actually dealt with a scammer themselves, because they've heard stories about other people being scammed
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and get frightened of that with no proof that they actually have been scammed
trek
I'd only assume i'd been scammed if, like. the person just disappeared or something.
trek
whose first reaction on waiting a while is "oh i have been cheated. i have been swindled. bamboozled."
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apparently that one chick BUT SO MANY PEOPLE i dont get why
yuri duty
oh this was an interesting read.
yuri duty
I feel like turnaround time expectations is generally why I don't do manga coloring commissions anymore
yuri duty
even if its super simple it might realistically take me a couple of weeks to a month to color like 10 to 15 panels
yuri duty
I guess its fair to want a faster turnaround for something a lot cheaper but I always end up stressing myself out trying to get things done quicker
yuri duty
if they want something more complex from me I don't even know how long it would take i would just have to send it to them in pieces
cranberry sauce
trek : yeah same here
cranberry sauce
as long as there's a line of communication we're cool
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