either he'll judge me, or it'll rise up to another issue he has on me, and so we'll talk about his issue and how to fix it, and by the time we finish, he'll feel a bit okay at least 'cause i try to reassure him a lot.. but i'm already exhausted emotionally to even bring up my issues
bat9767: believe me, that'll just go back to his issues about me... and then it'll be my fault again... in the end, i just have to accept that i feel bad, yes, but it's my fault i'm feeling bad and i'm hurting :c
peanut9111: You think it's gonna feel worse? I was honestly hoping he'll realize things soon enough and make it up to me. But lately... I don't feel like we're partners you know? I just feel like I'm there to make him feel better and reassure him on a lot of things. I don't feel like my needs are getting fulfilled anymore...
I love him too much that I don't even wanna fight for myself or my issues just so i'd not upset him more. He's already upset because of a lot of his issues about me. :c
hi, you deserve someone not toxic. If he can't change then dump him. Dami pang lalake dyan, di lang yung guy mo. Based from reading your responses, it seems like mental/emotional abuse yan. Ask yourself, if you have a daughter
peanut9111: he can talk it out.. but i can't.. i'm bad with feelings talk... and it'll take a lot of congincing and patience and safe space for me to start opening up... so the moment i felt unsafe with him, i stopped being open about my feelings and we're just discussing his issues whenever we have an argument...
An argument that i don't even participate in because i don't even try to defend my point anymore. It's easier to just let him win all the time even if it's eating me out inside :c
i don't want to give up on him just yet. we're just new. only a few months in. so every time, i just keep on hoping his response will change. i still am. :c
bun7009: i want to work it out with him pero problema ko din kasi, i'm bad at communicating my feelings without getting too overwhelmed by the situation that i'll just cry :c
or refuses toidk which is worse