Tanks4theMemory
[State of the Tanks]
Tanks4theMemory
First of all, I just want to thank everybody on my timeline; you've all been awesome and supportive through all this and you don't know how much I appreciate it.
Tanks4theMemory
There's still some post-funeral stuff that dad needs to take care of, and some little things that need canceled or transferred but for the most part, all that's left now is... to go on living with this particular 'new normal'.
SakuraLatte🌸
ᴼᴴ ᶠᴼᴿ 🦊 ˢᴬᴷᴱ
/hug
ex-arch
ShaynaIsHere
yarn witch
Tanks4theMemory
Dad and I are hanging in there. Taking care of each other and of things around the house (since stuff like dishes, laundry, and trash disposal still need taken care of on the regular no matter what).
V O I D M O T H
StupidSexyV⚠der
carrying on is the hardest part yes
V O I D M O T H
It really is. Doubly so if you were living with the loved one who passed.
E.S. Levi
/Hug.
E.S. Levi
I was just wondering how you were doing, last night.
Tanks4theMemory
And once it's safe to do so, Dad and I are planning on doing more stuff together. Just spending a day/afternoon doing things like going to movies, checking out local museums/attractions, maybe even taking a bus day trip.
Tanks4theMemory
That's in the future though. Right now it's just... living.
shinotenshi22
huggle
ex-arch
take it as slow as you need, honey
TifanyValentine
carrying on and continuing on is all you can do. and it does feel like 'just living' for a while. i'm so sorry you guys have gone through all of this.
carrying on and continuing on is all you can do. and it does feel like 'just living' for a while. i'm so sorry you guys have gone through all of this.
Tanks4theMemory
I'll have to touch base with work sometime next week. See if I want to come back the following week or if I feel like I need more time.
Tanks4theMemory
So... yeah, that's basically the situation as it stands now.
Tanks4theMemory
(hugs everyone) Thank you all again. Just knowing you guys are out there had been a big help, like I said.
kikibug13
/gently loves at
uftaki
StupidSexyV⚠der
glad to help honestly
Shan-aconda
Leanne No
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Tanks4theMemory
Will probably do a state of the RP post tomorrow so I can take stock and maybe do some plotting. Since I can't really hiatus for two months in a row and frankly don't want to.
ColorOfBOOM
TRON
/hugs
tronja307020
One day at a time. You can do it, even though I know it's gonna be rough for a while. Take care of yourself, boo.
One day at a time. You can do it, even though I know it's gonna be rough for a while. Take care of yourself, boo.
toomanydogs
Hooded Figure
<33333
Hooded Figure
take your time and be kind to yourself; you're loved and it's good you and your dad have each other right now
Hooded Figure
Tanks4theMemory
Darth Imperious
Seijin CC
/huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuug
Vincent Gogh
Vincent Gogh
here for you if want to pp me <3
Tanks4theMemory
Thanks. <3
Leanne No
If you ever want to vent I am here for you as well. <3
Hyatt
/hugs
Hyatt
just keep hanging in there and progressing back to as normal as you can
SakuraLatte🌸
Be kind to yourself rn love
Bastian
I'm so glad to hear from you. <3 Like all that is shared here with you: be kind to yourself, grief takes time and energy and follows no rules.
triedsohard
as a note, I know you said you don't want to but if you needed to take a second hiatus that would be absolutely okay in VT at least
triedsohard
also be kind to yourself, I'm thinking of you
TheHourMorgana
Awwesome
/hugs
mariscorner🇺🇦
Tanks4theMemory
Thanks everyone. <3
Tanks4theMemory
And I do want to try and get back into RP, so I doubt I'll need another hiatus, but it's nice to know I can if I need to.
effie126
/hugs