Tanks4theMemory
[CW covid] We haven't been able to wake my mom up today. Called an ambulance for her.
JingleBells
>: keeping her in my thoughts
Akeshu
I hope she wakes up soon
JingleBells
keep us updated
E.S. Levi
Oh yikes...I hope she recovers well :c
zoki.
oh no D: keeping you in my thoughts, yeah
𝔯𝔞𝔦𝔫𝔟𝔬𝔴 𝔭𝔦𝔯𝔞𝔠𝑦~
oh man I hope she gets well
WinterOwOlf
Oh no. Hopefully everything is ok ;;
ready seth NO
shinotenshi22
Oh no!
shinotenshi22
/huggles and sends support.
uftaki
Oh no... oh no. D: I hope everything is okay.
effie126
oh no. I hope she is okay
ColorOfBOOM
Oh no, I'm so sorry, hoping for the best for your fam
coco_rose
I'm really sorry. Hope she recovers soon
toomanydogs
TRON
Oh no, I'm so sorry, I hope she's okay.
Shan-aconda
Lighting a candle and hoping for the best <3
TheApostate ™
Oh no! Keeping her in my thoughts!
Idol Minako
💀Go, Cubs Go💀
in my prayers
Tanks4theMemory
Heading to the hospital with dad. Will check back when I can.
Leanne No
oh no.... I will pray for her
ALEX NO
I’m sending all my healing thoughts.
Just Lore
So many good and healing thoughts!
Tanks4theMemory
Or not, since they already left.
Tanks4theMemory
Guess I wait.
Tanks4theMemory
(clings to everyone)
uftaki
[clings back and hugs tight]
Leanne No
/just hugs tightly
shinotenshi22
/clings and pets your hair
𝘛𝘢𝘪𝘻𝘪𝘿𝙞𝙖μ𝙭𝙞𝙖 💮
oh no, oh I hope it's all alright, hun.
Tanks4theMemory
I hope so too.
V O I D M O T H
/hugs tightly
Tanks4theMemory
(hugs)
TifanyValentine
-sendings you so much love and hugs -
TRON
/hugs
yarn witch
ChickletLARP
Here for you. So much love. I am so sorry my friend.
StupidSexyV⚠der
oh dear. healing thoughts to you all
ChickletLARP
Ping me if you need me, that'll make a sound on my ipad,. or send a private message. HEre for whatever you need, my friend.
Awwesome
/hugs
Tanks4theMemory
Thanks everyone. This really neas a lot.
Poinsettia 🌺
Clings to you
Poinsettia 🌺
If you need anything I’m here as well. Feel free to PP me
Tanks4theMemory
Thank you.
Tanks4theMemory
Hospital just called. They've intubated her and are going to be admitting her to the ICU.
.。❅⋆ʟʏʟɪᴛʜ⋆❅。.
We're here if you want to talk or you need distractions, love I hope they give you good news soob
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*soon
Tanks4theMemory
I hope so too.
Tanks4theMemory
I legit don't know what we're going to do if something happens to her.
ʎɟɟnlℲ
Oh no. I wish you all the best.
jellefish ✿
gosh, that's so awful.. ;; i'll be keeping you in my thoughts
uftaki
It's terrifying and awful... I am so sorry. My prayers are for you and your mom.
Pen Again
I'm sorry. Hoping for the best
Tanks4theMemory
Thank you everyone.
Darth Imperious
Oh no.
Just Lore
Ang sends her hugs and love, too.
Poinsettia 🌺
She’s in care right now
Tanks4theMemory
Yeah.
.。❅⋆ʟʏʟɪᴛʜ⋆❅。.
it's a really scary situation, and very stressing
.。❅⋆ʟʏʟɪᴛʜ⋆❅。.
My uncle had to be hospitalized due to covid a few months ago as well
.。❅⋆ʟʏʟɪᴛʜ⋆❅。.
I wish we could do more to help
.。❅⋆ʟʏʟɪᴛʜ⋆❅。.
ᴼᴴ ᶠᴼᴿ 🦊 ˢᴬᴷᴱ
/hug I'm glad she's being looked after, and am praying for the best for her.
ShaynaIsHere
D: ! /sends Healing Vibes, hugs
CrypticGirl
/sends prayers
MKSakura
I'll keep you both in my thoughts
Tanks4theMemory
Dad's home, and he confirmed what the doctor said in the phone call. Now we're just waiting.
StupidSexyV⚠der
Good luck to you all
Hooded Figure
/holds so tight
ChickletLARP
Hoping she recovers soon and well, and that he does not get worse.
JingleBells
continuing to send good vibes
JingleBells
𝕚𝕔𝕖 𝕡𝕣𝕚𝕟𝕔𝕖𝕤𝕤
I'm so sorry this is happening but glad she's got the care she needs right now. We're here for you
Hooded Figure
^
Tanks4theMemory
Thanks everyone.
Shan-aconda
I am here for you dude let me know if there is anything I can do
WinterOwOlf
Tanks4theMemory
Thanks. There's nothing to do at the moment but wait which I hate, but I appreciate all the good thoughts and prayers.
Hooded Figure
Waiting is hard.
Hooded Figure
We're with you.
TheApostate ™
waiting is the worst
TheApostate ™
Please, keep us updated
Tanks4theMemory
Will do.
Tanks4theMemory
Initial freaking out has faded to this weird gray area. Where I kinda want to do things to distract myself but can't really focus enough to do anything and also feel sort of bad for trying to do anything normal beyond the bare necessities (food, water, bathroom breaks, etc.)
Tanks4theMemory
So I've just been... half watching youtube videos.
Poinsettia 🌺
You need to do something to help you breathe
TifanyValentine
don't feel bad doing normal stuff, there's nothing you can do for the situation <3
Poinsettia 🌺
Freaking out is understandable completely, but as easy as it is, it can only hurt you
Poinsettia 🌺
Watch YouTube
Tanks4theMemory
Yeah. Youtube is what I got right now. Might try tags once I know she's stable.
Shan-aconda
there is also Tubi which has worked for me in the past it's a free streamer with ads and content rotates but it's got all kinds of obscure get lost in movies
Tanks4theMemory
/nods
E.S. Levi
I know that state. Just remember, distracting yourself doesn't mean you don't care, it means you're trying to take care of yourself too.
E.S. Levi
Self-care is important, especially during stressful events.
Hyatt
/hugs
TifanyValentine
Yeah and if you take care of yourself, you'll have the strength to handle any news that comes in or stuff that needs to be taken care of -- when my mom was sick, it was important to remember to eat when we could, because we'd forget to
E.S. Levi
^^^^
Shan-aconda
all of this
E.S. Levi
You've gotta relax when you can, constant worry is very bad for you and only wears you down so you might not be able to help when you otherwise could.
Tanks4theMemory
Thanks. Logically I know all that. But I appreciate the reminder.
E.S. Levi
Sometimes, weasel brain needs to hear it from someone else to believe it's not just an excuse.
Tanks4theMemory
For now, youtube. Later... we'll see.
E.S. Levi
Yeah, passive stuff is good for trying to shift brain out of stress mode.
Bastian
hugs you so much Will be keeping you in thoughts and prayers everything will be okay.
Tanks4theMemory
Update: They've got her stabilized, but there's a lot of inflamation in her lungs. They're keeping her sedated and treating her with steroids and another drug that I forget the name of to try and help with that. Bottom line, she's not in a good way, so thoughts and prayers are all still appreciated.
E.S. Levi
Sounds like it's at least an improvement.
Tanks4theMemory
She's... where she needs to be, but is very sick. So basically back to waiting.
E.S. Levi
Yeah. She's at least in a place where they can help, instead of just doing damage control.
Bastian
How is your dad doing?
Tanks4theMemory
Bout the same as me. Worried, but... not really much to do besides worry and try to distract ourselves.
TRON
Oh man, that's rough, all of you are definitely in my prayers and thoughts.
Poinsettia 🌺
You all are in my thoughts right now
Tanks4theMemory
Thank you.
TheHourMorgana
CrypticGirl
Sounds like how I felt when my mom was going through the cancer shit. All I could do was pace the floor while carrying my daily routine, waiting for updates or trying to fight for time off so that I could hopefully see her one more time...
Tanks4theMemory
Yeah. I'll have time off, but will have to be quarantining myself.
triedsohard
I'm sorry to hear all this. I'll be thinking of you.
Tanks4theMemory
Thank you.
Hooded Figure
I'm so glad she's stabilized and under good care. Sending all the good thoughts your way.
ChickletLARP
Your self care isn't taking anything away from her. Maybe you and your dad should watch a movie together or try a board game. Neither of you will be in great shape, but you;'ll be there for each other, and that can be a huge help.
ChickletLARP
For self distraction, I find chatting with people about other topics, and video games where I don't care if I lose (so replaying old KH levels, making a new temp Sims family, things like that) help. As does music. Some times just having sound on in the background can help a lot.
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Keeping all of you in my thoughts, dear