I 100% hear you on that. when I played on IJ I avoided a/b/o like the plague, though also 99% of the time when I saw people bring it up it was focused on mpreg, which is one of those things that's just not for me. (tbh I don't outright hate it as much as I used to but idk if I could ever write it, as I'm not crazy about pregnancy stuff in general)
also 100% with you on kylo status. I tend to default to alpha because it's easier for a lot of reasons (especially for a female!kylo) BUT I've come around to dabbling in her as omega. I don't think I could write it with someone random tho, just because I am not down for victimizing her in that context.
LOL yeah it was totally ruthnor who made my brain realize "oh hey, I can write this stuff without writing this other stuff... wait I love this now, fuck"
lmfao i feel the same way abt poe... like personality wise it makes sense for him to be an alpha, but i like playing secret spicy omegas... i can shoehorn myself into any a/b/o scenario LMAO
i think part of the reason that esp for something like reylo i like kylo as the omega is because it changes the dynamic SO MUCH and i also like rey as an alpha alot
kylo is an omega with a chocolate and caramel scent