StupidSexyV⚠der
ITP: my living room. my mother insists it's dirty, terrible, I'm going to get an infection and die, hace to clean it's so dirty that she can't live like this and i shouldn't be making her
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it IS cluttered as fuck
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especially this area
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couch also cluttered as fuck but it's too cold to use it
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and NO ONE but me could EVER live like this
HOCKEY SEASON
Cluttered, yes, but not FILTHY. There's a huge difference
HOCKEY SEASON
I could live like that.
Lady Stardust
yeah, it's messy but it's not really dirty
StupidSexyV⚠der
also after recovering from surgery she wants me to leave
HOCKEY SEASON
WHAT
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because she can't live like this
HOCKEY SEASON
Oh for fuck's sake
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Lady Stardust
: she's also says I'm abusing my cat by making her live like this
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SO
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sound off y'all
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also i said it's cluttered not dirty
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"i beg to differ"
HOCKEY SEASON
I would offer you a place with me? But we've discussed that.
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but she can't tell me what is dirty
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HOCKEY SEASON
: i be making 13 when i go back which is better than now
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but still
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also!!!!
HOCKEY SEASON
Yeah, I'm thinking of your gas though
StupidSexyV⚠der
"i keep offering to help you clean!"
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this! i asked for help!
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i said i needed top clean under my bed and can't MOVE IT RIGHT NOW
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SHE DID MOVE IT
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THEN STARTED ON THIS
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which is why i don't want her help ever
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but no really
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cluttered and messy i see
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seriously if you see dirt, tell me because i don't
𝕻𝖍𝖆𝖓𝖙𝖔𝖒 𝕳𝖎𝖛𝖊
I will agree that it's cluttered
𝕻𝖍𝖆𝖓𝖙𝖔𝖒 𝕳𝖎𝖛𝖊
a bit messy but not dirty
𝕻𝖍𝖆𝖓𝖙𝖔𝖒 𝕳𝖎𝖛𝖊
I don't see risk of infection and death
𝕻𝖍𝖆𝖓𝖙𝖔𝖒 𝕳𝖎𝖛𝖊
honestly 
Becky
cluttered and messy yes. Health hazard and dirty no.
StupidSexyV⚠der
(i agree btw that i need to get the clutter out for the with she's having done. that she have me a month, of which i have two weekends off, prior to surgery to do)
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and this is the last weekend and I'm injured
Lady Stardust
she just wants to pick a fight and that's handy
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i think so?
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i mean this is always the fight
Becky
Or it makes her anxious and extra fighty. ...I do that. it's shotty to other people. I've gotten better since bei mg aware
StupidSexyV⚠der
since i was 7 and she said she wanted to leave and never come back because the 7 year old and the 3 year old who both have adhd (not dxed because she wouldn't allow it) along with her husband didn't appreciate her cleaning or help enough
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so not a new fight
Becky
Ugh
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BECKY PERSON WHO HAD KIDS THAT AGE
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tell me
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how your kind would have taken that
Becky
I cannot even imagine but I doubt the answer was 'well'
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...i superficially did
Becky
But basically I gave up when they were that age and cared about cleaning again when they were like 14. And then stopped again and got dogs because life
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with "ok do that" and "not caring"
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(which is a trauma response but if i say that I'm talking to her like she's stupid.)
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but yeah
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no of but me finds this acceptable or worked live like this
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(not that it matters honestly because she could be the single voice of dissent but it's her house so only what she thinks matters)
Crow Witch
there's a difference between clutter and dirty
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so I'm saying
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we all wrong
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oh and
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this yeah can is getting full
this yeah can is getting full
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"it's a third full or less! chirst" was my response
Crow Witch
Yeah I'm just agreeing
GW Wolf
Eh, cluttered is fun!
StupidSexyV⚠der
also lack of clutter makes me anxious as fuck
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i keep pointing out I'm not making her "live like this" - it isn't her living space! - but "it's my horse" and "i know its here"
Darth Imperious
She'd hate the state of my old house. (Which was due to my mother being a hoarder.)
StupidSexyV⚠der
Oh she goes back and forth on if she thinks I am one or just too lazy to want to clean
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(because a diagnosis of chronic pain and chronic fatigue she honestly doesn't get and won't listen, and DESPITE ALSO HAVING ADHD DOESN'T GET THAT EITHER.)
Darth Imperious
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yeah
Crow Witch
Honestly she sucks
Ghoulfish
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Crow Witch
: her mental illness at work
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Ghoulfish
: thanks
Crow Witch
I know and I get it I just hate what it does to your quality of life. I'm sorry
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thanks
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and i hate it too
Jay
ugh, I'm sorry. I mean, yeah, I'd have trouble living in that much clutter, but... it's obviously CLUTTER, not filth, and it's, y'know, SPACE SHE HAS TO LIVE IN
Darth Imperious
Not really relevant to anything, but I just now noticed what seems to be a naked doll in that last picture before the trash can one.
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Jay
: also a lot out of cluttered in wars that avoid the water.
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Darth Imperious
: yes there is. doll is waiting to be repainted