IF DESCRIBING HIMSELF, first Jedao would say "yes" and then after being scolded for several more predictable jokes in that vein, would say he's into dark, jacked tanks with killer shoulders (in which he awkwardly squirms around using the word 'soldier') and tall pale nerds, and that he's kinky and switchy with a particular fondness for bondage
he's not precisely demi-with-ladies, he can definitely have sudden/shallow/instant attraction to women, but 1) it's much rarer, and 2) mostly.....like....butch women
(I headcanon that Yeren was in the Androgynous Elegant Nerd category, who was his canonical HS girlfriend before he dumped her to angst about his dead gay HS first love/BFF)
and he can be in love with women - I headcanon that he was suuuper in love with his Chief of Staff Kel Gized, who was a big bruiser with a facial scar and a great laugh who would call him on his bullshit
he's trauma-repulsed by High Femme but trauma-repulsed combined with stockholm syndrome-inflected attraction to Dudes Presenting High Femme, which can be....complicated, for him
he's in the process of detangling his general Tall Nerd Lust from said stockholm syndrome that he's got memories of years of sex slavery and torture back, so, that's going well
and definitely doesn't give a fuck about gender. or like, species, he is an amorphous god whose true nature is a cross between an angry cat and a whirlpool
I'm laughing at your comment on Kahl's sexuality, because of my thoughts on Nokov: so weird and not quite metaphorical and vaguely alien. but with mommy issues somehow
Nokov is so weird and metaphorical, and so unaware. 'my true being is the construct of a feeling of people towards a certain thing'... 'i don't know what mom meant about '''influences''''
BUT in short I think he has not allowed himself to explore his own erotic imagination or responses much at all beyond sitting around feeling righteous, and faintly indignant when brothers do literally accuse him of getting off on being a prig lmao
and the books are first person Tik-Tok's POV, but that scene and immediately subsequent ones are written with this. like...complete lack of interiority
bear in mind, despite being a literal robot, Tik-Tok wants to give grandiose wicked speeches about his choices and desires and freedom (to be eeeevil) like allllll the time
but it's very early days in Tik-Tok's weird celebrity status as "that weird robot who can do art!" which he leverages eventually into a lot of personal agency and opportunity
he and Gumdrop were both sex-equipped at the same time so that the rowdy young son of their plantation could play the "prank" of triggering them to fuck like crazy, film it, and then make them get robot married for spectacle for all his friends
this is obviously super fucked up and humiliating, but he maintains an enduring affection for Gumdrop long after he is otherwise a hateful cretin to everyone else (Gumdrop's sudden reappearance in his life actually saves the poor college girl)
this doesn't mean he wouldn't fuck meat people if it sufficiently fueled one of his nefarious plans, or that he'd fuss much if he couldn't get out of it
so anyway Gestalt thinks his sexuality is "I am the ubermensch, obviously fucking myself is superior, other people probably only fuck each other instead of masturbating because they are sad bastards who lack the physical capacity to give themselves blowjobs"
in terms of attraction he's also kind of....like, loftily thinks of himself as ~above~ that because he can tell if he's only attracted from one of his bodies
obviously????? (which: weird as hell. and depersonalizing from the inside. What if you could avoid depression by tourniqueting one of your arms and never using it?)
but yeah I think it's sort of a muddle in terms of like...point-source gonad-attractions and distributed-source psychological attractions and they all kind of slosh around in between the bodies
if he'd managed to have a girl baby and also not got caught for treason and tortured slowly in separate prisons forever, etc etc, his plan would have been to be immortal by continuous self-breeding
prideself-control feels"like Fives, to Tup