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其實細看這則 Asia Argento 性侵 Jimmy Bennett 後和解的報導,一方面不認為是「你不可以但我可以」「你欺負我我就欺負別人」「報應」的情況,二方面也覺得報導中有很多疑點。

加州合意性交的年齡是18歲。

Asia Argento, a #MeToo Leader, Made a Deal With Her ...
當然看完之後如果還是抱持同樣的想法,或者覺得這些懷疑是在「譴責被害人」,那我也不會辯解。
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在這裡有一個很重要的癥結,加州合意性交的年齡是18歲,而當時 Jimmy Bennett 是17歲
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如果要把 Asia Argento 這件事和韋恩斯坦相並論的話,請先考慮幾個點:
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第一,這是否是利用權勢脅迫之下的性交?
第二,是否是慣犯?
第三,對方是否合意?
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當然第三點碰到年齡的話就立刻打死,在法庭上直接GG,但是犯法是一回事,事情的原委又是另外一回事
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根據這篇報導,Jimmy七歲的時候演出了Asia編導、演出的《心是會騙人的》而認識
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這部根據匿名小說改編的片,描述有毒癮的妓女母親,把兒子打扮得像女孩勾引男人,最後這男孩被強暴
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他們後來在社群網路上的互動都以母子相稱,在事發前後都有親密互動
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On May 9, 2013, the day they met for a reunion in her room at a Ritz-Carlton in Marina del Rey, Calif., she posted on Instagram: “Waiting for my long lost son my love jimmymbennett in trepidation #marinadelrey smoking cigarettes like there was no next week.”
Mr. Bennett responded, “I’m almost there!:-)
@asiaargento on Instagram: “Waiting for my long lost...
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2013/05/09是他們「重逢」的日子,也是事發當天,他們還有過親密的貼文互動。
Asia「惶惶不安地等待我失散多年的兒子,我的愛,抽煙抽得像沒有明天」
Jimmy「我就要到啦!」
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然而當天碰面後,Asia「支開」了陪同Jimmy前來的家人,給他喝酒,也給他看自己寫給他的筆記,然後開始親他,把他推倒在床上,脫下他的褲子為他口交,然後騎了上去,然後,她要求他拍了很多照片,
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而這些自拍的床照(雖然看不出來是床照)也上傳到了IG,權限還是公開
@asiaargento on Instagram: “Happiest day of my life ...
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在兩人用過午餐之後,Jimmy回到在橘郡和雙親一起居住的家,在他開車回家的路上,「越想越不對勁」(原文:he began to feel “extremely confused, mortified, and disgusted.”)
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然後在事件過後一個月,6/8,Jimmy發送了一條推特訊息給Asia「想你,媽媽」,還有一張紀念電影的雋刻項鍊照片(但他的推特最近關了)
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事發過程都是報導寫的,這些文字都是報導上的,並非我想像(好啦也許翻譯的時候會有點不按照字面來),當然有沒有可能是像「房思琪」那種「誘姦」的例子,也是可能有,甚至那些推特IG上的文,也可能是種威脅,但這需要更多的證據。
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也許這是一段利用年紀的差距,名之為愛的扭曲控制,也許那些推文都可以算是騷擾,不過這也要更進一步的消息才會知道
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我們可以看到大部分的性侵受害者不舉報,因為自己站出來,讓一切攤在公眾面前,並不是每個人都有這麼強大的心理素質。
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但我所看到的指控,通常都是受害者本人對加害者的指控,然而紐約時報的消息來源是一份加密的檔案。
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The documents, which were sent to The New York Times through encrypted email by an unidentified party, include a selfie dated May 9, 2013, of the two lying in bed. As part of the agreement, Mr. Bennett, who is now 22, gave the photograph and its copyright to Ms. Argento, now 42. Three people familiar with the case said the documents were authentic.
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不知道誰送來紐約時報的加密郵件,包括了2013/05/09事發當天兩人的床照自拍,兩人和解的部分文件,而最後,照片的所有權由Jimmy(控方)交給了Asia,而相關消息人士都說這份文件是真的
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匿名本身是一件很奇怪的事,就算兩人有協定,Jimmy不能舉報Asia或是透露消息,然而許多「被和解」的受害人,仍然是冒著被告到死的危險,具名指控
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再者,這是比較偏個人的看法,我不會認為某個年齡以上才能自我表達,而某個年齡以下就不行,雖然法律是這樣訂的,但是加州定18歲,旁邊的內華達州定17歲,是要說「早知道當時去賭城就沒事」嗎?
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是因為法律上站不住腳,所以才會有這份「和解」協定
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Mr. Bennett’s notice of intent asked for $3.5 million in damages for the intentional infliction of emotional distress, lost wages, assault and battery.
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Mr. Bennett made more than $2.7 million in the five years before the 2013 meeting with Ms. Argento, but his income has since dropped to an average of $60,000 a year, which he attributes to the trauma that followed the sexual encounter with Ms. Argento, his lawyer wrote.
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Jimmy向Asia求償三百五十萬美元,作為心理創傷的賠償,說他事發之前年收入兩百多萬,但是現在只有六萬。
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In the agreement between Ms. Argento and Mr. Bennett, she agreed to pay him $380,000 over the course of a year and a half, starting with an initial payment of $200,000 that was made in April, according to a letter to Ms. Argento in which her lawyer, Ms. Goldberg, outlined the terms of the deal.
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後來應該是殺價到三十八萬,今年四月付了二十萬
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另外要提一下,記者在文中提到很多次安東尼波登,他是之前自殺的名廚,2016離婚後和Asia交往,有人在記者的推特上提醒,處理新聞的時候可以更細膩一點,至少在波登這部分。
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還有一點是,不要忘了韋恩斯坦過去對付受害者的手法,可以特過情報和媒體抹黑,操弄成他想要你認為的樣子。
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寫得很亂,不過不寫我會一直想這件事,還是先寫下來好了
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BLH
NJ1h ago
Even before this revelation, Ms. Argento's claims against Harvey Weinstein appeared weakened by her continuing relationship with him. It wasn't as if she were constantly in contact with him so that she could not avoid the relationship. It always did sound more like quid pro quo.
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In light of these revelations, she just appears extremely manipulative and has no sense of right and wrong. There is too much opportunity for a different type of abuse in the #MeToo movement. The abuse is the ending of careers due to the assumption of guilt because of an accusation.
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Sadly, there is opportunity for accusers to recharacterize relationships due to buyers' remorse, embarrassment, attention, fame, money or simply revenge.
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Who knows what motivated her. Her accusations should've been looked at with more skepticism because of her continuing relationship with Mr. Weinstein. She would not have been able to position herself as a spokesperson for the #MeToo movement.
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Manish
California5h ago
Did Bennett or his lawyers agree to his name being used for this article? From the article, it seems not - "Mr. Bennett, who lives in Los Angeles, would not agree to be interviewed, said his lawyer, Gordon K. Sattro.
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“In the coming days,” Mr. Sattro wrote in an email, “Jimmy will continue doing what he has been doing over the past months and years, focusing on his music.”"
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I thought you wouldn't expose a victim to prevent any further psychological trauma to the person in the wake of this news being out to be devoured by everyone. Wasn't this article supposed to be about Asia Argento as the abuser? About her hypocrisy? Why is the abuse victim being victimized further?
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Does NYT have any journalistic guidelines for these type of revelations? Or it doesn't matter because the abuse victim is a male?
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或者反過來說,紐約時報的報導不該描寫被害者的部分,應該要寫加害人是多麼噁心多麼雙重標準
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甚至連不想具名的被害者都不該透露
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也有人舉例說Asia自己都還和韋恩斯坦「交往」了五年
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J Jencks
Portland7h ago
I disagree with trial by media, and in this case it appears neither party wanted this to be made public.
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I'd like to know who leaked the information (a Weinstein associate?) but there doesn't seem to be any interest by the Times to pursue that.
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Given the available information it appears Argento committed statutory rape with a 17 year old, for which she might have been charged a misdemeanor and been required to do community service, and Bennett committed extortion, a felony with a sentence of up to 4 years.
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Of course, it's a moot point because Argento has been charged in the media, which is as good as a guilty verdict and will probably put an end to her career.
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我還是覺得匿名很奇怪,一刀殺兩個人
不,還有第三個,就是紐約時報(新聞急先鋒看太多)
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否認聲明出來了,我們可以繼續看下去,究竟是會有更多證據出來打臉這個否認聲明呢?還是?
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好,我真的很困惑,那張「全心愛你」的字條是男方寫給女方的,如果反過來還能說是騷擾,但是根本就男的寫的,是女方捏造的嗎?還有那張床照,還是男的拍的
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基本上今天的這篇說的和之前TMZ的「爆料」是一致的
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不知道手機訊息是怎麼被截圖的,要不是有人透露給媒體,不然難道是被駭?
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