Hiraku917
Dear mom, I do not want to cosign the apartment for my sister just so she can live in an apartment in Boston without worrying about rent.
Hiraku917
She wants to go to Boston and find her dream job without actually worrying about resolving any of the challenges she will actually be facing (ie. finding a place she can afford independently, getting a job there, etc)
Hiraku917
Instead, she wants other people to resolve the challenges for her. In this case, have me use the paystubs I do not have to cosign apartment for her
Hiraku917
Already told them I don't have a job, and that I am kind of waiting on grad school replies while at the good graces of my boyfriend letting me live in his house without worrying about rent.
Hiraku917
Their response was, wait till I get acceptance from grad school, then maybe, just /maybe/, I can cosign for my sister's imaginary Boston apartment since I would have an occupation
Hiraku917
You don't get to use me like that
lucineblue
nope
lucineblue
just keep telling them no
Hiraku917
Earlier I was with friends, she called me a couple of times
Hiraku917
She then left a message that it's an emergency
Hiraku917
I called her as soon as I got home
Hiraku917
she just wants to know if dad had sent in the money he said he would
Hiraku917
and if I heard back from grad school
Hiraku917
Do not say it's an emergency unless someone in the family is dying
Hiraku917
and then she was like, "Ah, I know I shouldn't be worrying about your grad school admission for you, but I can't help it"
Hiraku917
I know why you're coming off more worried about it than I do
Hiraku917
because the next thing you said, which was, "Maybe once you get in, then you can finally get paid."
Hiraku917
It was gonna go into the "and then you can cosign for your sister"
lucineblue
why are they always giving into your sister??????
lucineblue
why do they pat her ass so much??????
Hiraku917
she gets violent and threatening
lucineblue
oh, so she wants to shove it onto you.
lucineblue
great
lucineblue
wonderful
lucineblue
just fucking disowner her already uuuuuuuuuuuugh i hate her
lucineblue
(I mean this in general/at your mom, not you)
Hiraku917
I know
Hiraku917
the right thing to do is no
Hiraku917
it's just irritating to feel that my sister doesn't talk to me for a year until recently when she wants/needs something from me
lucineblue
well yeah, cause she's a self centered mess
Hiraku917
my boyfriend suspects she has borderline personality
Hiraku917
because of how she goes from love to hate to love with people and jobs like that
lucineblue
possibly, yeah. :/