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[cw: rape] Gosh I love waking up in the morning and being punched with discourse
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immediately seeing someone I've followed for a long time on tumblr screaming that everyone who has any kinks, is sex positive, or has ever watched porn is a rape apologist
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thanks, folks
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I KNOW some kinks can appear real skeevy, but unless someone is really being non consensually hurt in any way, it's just a kink. Not everyone is comfortable with everyone else's kinks- I'm not into pet play, so I avoid stuff about it- doesn't mean everyone participating ever is being abused
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and man sex posi stuff has to be done carefully I know, but 95% of the time or more I can guarantee it's not encouraging people to go rape others
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Porn I'm gonna be less hard-line defensive of because it's a very iffy industry with a history (and current place) of bad practices and abuse.
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But not every person who's ever watched porn- not knowledgeable of everything going on around the industry or people who made it, especially looking for something they know is alright, participating, is saying everything that's ever happened in porn is alright
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and it's absolutely not to say bad things don't happen or they shouldn't be minimized
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but every person on the planet who's not vanilla missionary doesn't think you'll die if you sleep with more than one person and has looked at pornhub before, I don't exactly think they're all sex-crazed abusive monsters who care only about getting off
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Rant over
sailor bii
oh my god what
Pythonmelon
yep
sailor bii
that's so stupid
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this person had a long winded argument pulled up on that one post about Pornhub releasing snow plows
ᴍᴏᴍᴏᴄʜᴋᴀ »
Jesus
ᴍᴏᴍᴏᴄʜᴋᴀ »
why this
Pythonmelon
the person they were arguing with was using that "oh honey, blah blah" kinda talk but we're basically saying that indulged fantasy doesn't dictate desired reality (you can be a fan of a villain without idolizing/you can like bdsm without actually wanting to hit people)
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and they just devolved into "filthy kinkster sex posi morons" right there
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so I was like
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nah I'm out bro
batsquatch
:/
bread singalong
god I hate this fucking attitude
bread singalong
I have some awful kinks (hello, violent awful rape) but no part of me supports this in real life
bread singalong
nor would I ever, ever do anything to anyone without consent
bread singalong
like there are some kinks that make me 
(i.e. stuff involving children) but if you're not doing it IRL then I can't judge
(i.e. stuff involving children) but if you're not doing it IRL then I can't judge
Pythonmelon
THAT'S MY BOAT
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exactly
bread singalong
I mean okay I can understand like - if you possess actual real life child porn but aren't hurting children IRL then yes I would judge you and possibly call the police
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yes
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if you actively engange in the consumption of illegal/SUPER BAD irl porn on purpose (revenge porn, murder porn, child porn, etc) there's a problem
bread singalong
yeah
bread singalong
but 99% of the bullshit I see on tumblr is not about that
Pythonmelon
exactly so
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I'm so picky about who I follow and I typically use a three strike system so this came out of nowhere
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followed directly by an "aces aren't lgbt get the fuck off my dash" post from the same person
ᴍᴏᴍᴏᴄʜᴋᴀ »
oh boy
ᴍᴏᴍᴏᴄʜᴋᴀ »
b y e
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y ep
ᴍᴏᴍᴏᴄʜᴋᴀ »
get the fuck off my dash
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get the fuck off MY dash pally
ᴍᴏᴍᴏᴄʜᴋᴀ »
/highfives you
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great minds think alile
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alike
ᴍᴏᴍᴏᴄʜᴋᴀ »
yeah we do :>
ᴍᴏᴍᴏᴄʜᴋᴀ »
I also have a no tolerance policy for anti-ace materials
ᴍᴏᴍᴏᴄʜᴋᴀ »
the first time you make that comment, you’re fucking gone
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Yeah my strike system doesn't apply to this kinda stufg
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stuff
ᴍᴏᴍᴏᴄʜᴋᴀ »
hella
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so, people I've unfollowed because they very suddenly to decide to fill my dash with: bashing women and also every single person of religion, ace hate, and now This Mess
ᴍᴏᴍᴏᴄʜᴋᴀ »
uuuuuugggh
ᴍᴏᴍᴏᴄʜᴋᴀ »
why this tumblr
veth
ok so according to this person...... the only way to not be a rape apologist......... is to not like sex or sex things in any way at all?
veth
sounds legit
Pythonmelon
but also to not be ace
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totally legit
veth
this person gets their way, the human race dies out, we are saved
Pythonmelon
the only way to have non problematic sex is to not have sex, because you choose to
batsquatch
are they also against being ace!?
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yep
batsquatch
whut.
ᴍᴏᴍᴏᴄʜᴋᴀ »
8Db
Pythonmelon
at least being cis and ace, because whatever
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love it
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mmmmhm
ᴍᴏᴍᴏᴄʜᴋᴀ »
/sets fire to them