[trans people online]

when u see someone talking about how they support trans rights as part of diagnosed dysphoria but hate 'trans-trenders' and genderfluidity

and then you read them bafflingly explaining to someone about how 'current gender' is different to 'biological gender' (which is what you feel at birth (?)) and that transition is a process of changing biological sex to be like 'biological gender or when current gender changes permanently'

and then they say most 'trans-trenders' are MtF because 'it's almost like women are given special privilege in our society'

and THEN
you read them explaining they considered transitioning to male but chose not to because true sex changes aren't possible, and everything falls into place

it's OK. you can be a boy

I respect your decision not to be a boy for now but you can still be a boy and when you become a boy a lot of this will make more sense

she also said she was put by her doctor on more female hormones which helped with her depression, so....

I'm so confused.

oh no now she's 'critical of feminism'. YOU'RE A BOY, YOU DISLIKE WOMEN BECAUSE YOU ARE FORCING YOURSELF TO TRY TO BE ONE WHEN YOU'RE ACTUALLY A BOY

It's always painful to watch that internalized hate

the fact that i had to read this

god right I regret it

haw haw

i wish this were uncommon, you find a lot of "detransitioning" "women" in terf circles

the fact that i, an idiot cis person whose whole understanding of gender is basically 'gender? i 'ardly knew 'er', was able to immediately recognise what was happening here shows how not uncommon this is

i have known a lot of angry, antifeminist, 'anti-sjw' women who have realised that the reason they hate women so much is because they were never actually one.

and after that got waaaay more chilled out

the world would be a better place for most of us who unfortunately can't fit into the gender boxes that have been thrown on us because of who we are if gender were treated as a choice, instead of predetermined

unfortunately for the rest of us in that similar hell, the "detransitioned" types take that agony and then turn it into an excuse to cosign causes that will kill us in the same kind of secular calvinist hell-choice that defines racists choosing to fuck themselves over economically so long as they can con themselves by thinking it fucks over

"them other people, who are lying, and making it harder for me by continuing to exist as a le" worse

we may not be able to go in and switch out every second x chromosome with a y chromosome, but you can absolutely transition into a male, it's easier than it is for trans girls...........

this level of self-loathing is tragic