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So today I was having a very typical feeling fat as fuck sort of day and also not really doing much about it sort of day
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and i'm bitching to my best friend about it, as I am want to do when I am being self absorbed
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and she says to me "You're not fat, you used to be fat, now you're just kinda chubby"
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and i was like girl no I FEEL fat
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and she says "Do strangers ask you if you're expecting or when you are due? Because they ask me - REGULARLY."
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and like holy shit I felt bad for her and then okay yeah i'm an asshole for being self absorbed
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I dont think she looks pregnant just kinda 40s fat
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people are rude
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but i haven't seen her in a year and she's telling me she's got a big belly so i guess I trust her.
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but aren't you supposed to "not assume" people are pregnant? ack so rude
dkronfeld
People can be pretty thoughtless that way.
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she said someone wrote her an apology letter about it
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i can't imagine it happening a few times much less regularly
dkronfeld
It really bugs me when I get asked that too.
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dkronfeld
: i should suspect so
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The feeling fat thing though? I don't think it ever goes away.
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dkronfeld
: well i'm still fat to be fair. I'm just "less fat"
dkronfeld
Leaner 
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dkronfeld
: you're a gentleman and a scholar
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