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Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 2:24 PM

they're going to fire my father

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 2:24 PM

and he got super depressed because he kept it inside for almost two months now

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 2:24 PM

I wondered why I couldn't hear him or anything

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 2:24 PM

shit, he has two kids below 10 years

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 2:25 PM

and a wife who has no job

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 2:25 PM

it's so not going to be a goo time in their family

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 2:25 PM

and I'm sitting here and I ust don't know what to do

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 2:25 PM

I have some savings but it can't keep them safe for a life

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 2:25 PM

and what I get now barely keeps me living

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 2:26 PM

I discussed this with housemate and uncles and we allaagreed to see what happens

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 2:26 PM

ut shit

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 2:26 PM

I'm so worried now

alleged traitor

@shapeshifterkid

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 5:16 PM

Oh, god, honey... I'm so sorry.

alleged traitor

@shapeshifterkid

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 5:16 PM

is there anything us internet strangers might be able to do?

Cirape

@ConnectiveTrick

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 5:18 PM

oh man, i'm sorry. i hope something comes up to help

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:14 PM

no, hun, I just needed to vent a bit. Mostly because it's all a stupid thing and since they're firing all the 'old' people they're coming with the weirdest excuses OR they're actually causing the problem

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:14 PM

his boss told him NOT to... uhn... check his card to prove he was in when he was in a determined kind of thing, since he is a quality inspector too

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:14 PM

and now he's going to be fired becuase he was 'too absent'

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:15 PM

and they CASuALLY controlled HIM.

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:15 PM

I know my father well enough to know that can't be the case, he neglected me because he wanted to get his promotions and work harder to bring money at home. And I know it was his way to prove his love but-

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:16 PM

back then I hated how much he worked and still now I sometimes complained because he doesn't limit himself to work 'AT WORK', he is part of a cultural association (the president), he is part of a social

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:16 PM

association (the Lion Club) and one of the highest representatives of his district, he helps with the mayor in the city he lives in- he literally lives to work

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:17 PM

And the fact that his boss told him to do things and he can't PROVE it was him who gave him instructions drives me ma

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:17 PM

but no, now everyone is firing people for 'absenteism'

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:18 PM

and since its the big italian thing right now (in the past few years) what better than trapping people so they'll appear like the ones doing wrong things?

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:18 PM

There are so many in his situation on his job right now and they're ALL over 50

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:18 PM

is that really a case?

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:19 PM

And shit, I've never seen him cry and it was awful and I felt so bad I just- UGH

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:19 PM

an- sorry, I don't really want anything, nor there's anything I can ask anyone to do, I just need to be angry for a bit

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:20 PM

that's why I want to escape italy, they'll do everything to ruin your life

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:20 PM

I was already enough angry because this whole 'family day thing against gay and trans and all going on- but that's nothing compared to this for me, because now it's personal

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:21 PM

And you know WHY they're doing this?

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:21 PM

because if you fire omeone because it was HIS fault

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:21 PM

you don't hae to pay all the expense to fire him normally

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:21 PM

no months in advance to say 'we cover you for a while'

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:21 PM

nothing

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:21 PM

AND he gets his work reputation ruied

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:22 PM

because when he'll try to be hired somewhere else they'll check his profile and see he messed up even if I KNOW it's not him, I've been with him forever and shit, I've never seen him take a pause

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:23 PM

and now, with two little kids, you're leaving him home without a chance to get another job? Shame on you.

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:23 PM

I'm- more than upset.

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:24 PM

We're trying to plan things, he's in the middle of a disciplinary thing and I'm glad I saved enough to buy him a phone for chrstmas because they even took his job-phone and he'd be without a proper phone at

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:24 PM

home because- he- I- I'm a mess right now

alleged traitor

@shapeshifterkid

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:48 PM

I am so, so sorry.

Feymarchian

@Feymarchian

Sun, Jan 31, 2016 9:49 PM

it's not your fault hugs And I just really need to vent out my anger, sorry if I post all of this, I need to talk