she's kinda gotta work out those issues and/or put enough time between herself and that part of her life that she's gotten used to the new semi-not-actually-at-all-normal
she loves her friends so dearly <3 so being good to her as a friend is really the only sensible way to go about it cause then it's just a nudge toward 'a friend with whom she holds hands and maybe smooches'
Ultimately loyalty is one of the most vitally important aspects of a relationship like that for her though so flirting with someone else in front of her would be not. a good idea
Which runs counter to how it's easiest to get get involved in the relationship because it actually tends to happen more sneakily rather than a big confession
Not suggestin' the meme this pic's used for, per se, but it feels appropriate somehow. Like this'd be her style or somesuch. :3