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Shit. How the fuck do you tell someone you might want to cancel the visit?
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Ren's getting kicked from her mom's place and moving in with her 'Daddy' and I'm not comfortable with that at all.
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Like...He's probably a nice guy, but I'm not comfortable staying with another guy there.
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Dusty was going to get a hotel.
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My husband isn't really comfortable with this either.
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just tell her that you're not comfortable with it?
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Doing so now.
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It just sits bad in my stomach.
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I've never stayed with another man besides my husband in my life.
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Aside from my grandpa and he molested me.
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dude I don't blame you for being uncomfortable with that at all
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I'm telling her the trip is still on if something stable happens by the 18th.
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Because I SERIOUSLY have a bad feeling.
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In my stomach about this.
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Fee, if you have a bad feeling about going, don't go.
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You have to do what you feel is right for you.
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I mean, I really want to see her and visit but argh. She's literally bouncing around right now and I -can't- do that.
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I planned this trip because she had her own apartment and seemed to be stable.
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Right.
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I didn't even know she was staying with her mom
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You don't want to have a bad feeling, go there, and then something happens that confirms it.
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No it's not her real dad
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It's her 'Daddy'.
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BDSM.
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And 'Daddy' has a girlfriend besides Ren.
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And he's a lot older than her.
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ah yes she told me about them
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I told her right now that the trip is in the air because there is no stability.
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If something stable happens by the 18th I will go.
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not sure if the other girl is his girlfriend or another sub tbh
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It's the same thing.
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she was kind of vague about it
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Sub/girlfriend
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oh, well in that case
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yeah
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Ren calls her sister
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What?
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I think that's cute tbh
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It's very respectful for that kind of relationship.
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^
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BDSM relationships are really odd if you're not used to them. /really used to them
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/RPs A LOT OF THEM
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it makes sense since she calls him Daddy so yeah, the other girl would be "sister"
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I'm used to this because in Heero's canon RP 'verse, he's Duo's sub, and Zechs is his "brother"
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yeah if that weirds you out then you'd probs be better not reading any of Heero's RPs with Ren's Duo on tumblr >.>
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XD
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Heero and Duo don't have a, uh, conventional BDSM relationship because they're both each others sub and Dom, and Duo calls Heero "Daddy" when Heero is all Dom that week or whatever
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I'm crying right now because I feel so bad
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:c
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it's not that you don't want to see her though
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you just don't feel comfortable because literally
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everything is up in the air
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and me, personally, I don't trust men.
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At all.
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So I wouldn't want to stay with one either
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EVEN IF THEY WERE THE NICEST GUY IN THE UNIVERSE
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Okay, so the whole thing with her mom is: Her cat (that she shouldn't have bought in the first place) was being too loud and the neighbors complained.
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She's going to see if John (Daddy) will take the cat.
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Which would give her till the 1st of March.
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As I leave around the 4th it would be OK with me.
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But it's still up in the air because she hasn't heard from John since the 29th.
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she said that's her therapy cat
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She still shouldn't have bought a cat. She didn't have a job in order to feed it and was relying on John. I mean Pineapple is a cute cat and all but still.
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It only became her therapy cat after she bought Pineapple
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she showed me pics, is a cute furball
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but yeah
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and like paid for it or whatever
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you shouldn't buy pets if you have no way of taking care of them
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like, food and stuff
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I told her that, Cuppa told her that, but Ren does what she wants, even if its a horrible fucking idea.
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especially since in the past she's had to give them up
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for...basically that reason
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Yeah. e___e;
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IDK IDK.
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We'll see if John even responds to her.
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If he doesn't by the 15th I'm cancelling.
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are you visiting just Ren?
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or other people too?
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Scratch that, I'll just give her to the 10th.
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Well, Dusty'll be driving down to visit for 1 weekend while I'm there
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if it were for longer than that I'd say you could at least visit with him
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idk
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give her until the 10th
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Well Dusty livse in another state
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*Lives
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yeah, he lives in Ohio
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WHERE THEY SAY THINGS LIKE "POP"
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If John can take Pineapple, this will be fixed. If he can't, I'm cancelling.
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IT IS FUCKING SODA
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chicken shins
DO YOU HEAR THAT
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SODA
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ldkjfad my grandma is from Illinois and she says Pop and I jump down her throat about it.
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XDDD
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I guess it's better than everything being "coke" but
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SODA DOESN'T POP
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IT FIZZES
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ifoshkfdgf
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anyway yeah
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The big thing about canceling is Dusty paid 100 for my ticket.
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:\
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but I'm sure he'd understand the reason why if you canceled
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all he has to do really is READ THIS PLURK
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all the stuff before we told him IT'S NOT POP I mean
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I can pay him back for the 100 he put into the trip
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I AM HERE I was helping someone
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(BUt he should read that too.)
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YES HELLO
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BTW IT'S NOT POP
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now onto what this plurk is actually about
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Let me read up real quick
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Now the landlord is saying she has 2 weeks to get rid of the cat or else she'll be kicked out.
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so if she wasn't really allowed to have a cat
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why did she get one
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When she was living on Owensboro she could have the cat. Daddy couldn't pay her rent, she got kicked out and is now living with her mom.
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Landlord is pissed he is staying with her mom free when she went there and rented.
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OK. First off, Fee, the most important thing is that no one is made to feel uncomfortable or weirded out
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KERMIT.
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So basically: This whole trip is in the fucking air. I would caution you to cancel your room until she gets a hold of John and sees if he can keep Pineapple.
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I see three options here:
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If you cancel now, since you confirmed yesterday, there might not be a fee?
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(1) if things get more stable for Ren in enough time to make a decision one way or another, and you are OK with it, then you can come to KY and I will visit that weekend and nothing changes.
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(2) We can make an alternate plan and you are more than welcome to visit here in Cincy. There is a spare bedroom in the apartment, or I can find a decent hotel nearby.
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(3) You can cancel.
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Any of those choices are 100% fine with me.
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I would be 1000% OK with the spare room in the apartment bit.
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Like 1000%.
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But you would have to drive to pick me up from the Louisville airport.
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If I try to alter the ticket is 200.
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I like this alternate plan
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this way it's not, you know, a wasted trip at least?
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That's not a problem at all.
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PLUS
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we all know Dusty.
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I regularly fly out of Louisville because Cincy is hella expensive.
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whereas you don't know Ren's Daddy
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enough to be comfortable
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As long as you can stand 2 hours of listening to WTNV or Wait Wait Don't Tell Me on the way back up to Cincy. XD
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I HAVE 2 MONTHS OF NIGHTVALE TO CATCH UP ON.
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two hours of Cecil Baldwin
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you make that sound like a terrible thing
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Okay, this all rests on if John can take Pineapple.
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____@
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....Fuck you plurk, not letting me do that face.
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Fuck you.
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And you are welcome to stay for however long. I will try and do four 10s so that way I get more days off to run around town and goof off.
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I demand pics of said goofing off
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We are walking distance to the Cincinnati Zoo, which is pretty awesome.
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Ooooh. I haven't been to a Zoo in so long
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Well, we'll just see what John says, if he even replies to her.
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and if he doesn't or he can't take the cat
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then there will be THE ADVENTURES OF DUSTY AND FEE
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I would say Ren could come up too, but she SERIOUSLY needs to look for a job.
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IDK IDK. I'll think it over.
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I would love to meet up with everyone but I don't do flying and my car is a PoS
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I would love if John did take her cat but she would still be kicked out on the 1st (my birthday) and have to go to Daddy's.
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LMAO Rachel XD My roommate keeps us update on the Florida tag on Fark ^^;
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^
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and we know Dusty isn't a creeper
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SIGH. I know, but raaawr.
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It's just.. all up in the air.
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Dusty is too much like Kat to be a creeper
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XD
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Kat you just kind of go AWW at
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...Apparently Ren's mom is calling places in Owensboro for a new place to live...?
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What the actual fuck.
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I ....Ren said they wouldn't be moving because her mom paid this month's rent already so maybe just for March..?
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yeaaaaah
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it seems like things are changing every few minutes
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THEY REALLY FUCKING ARE.
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I"M SO STRESSED OUT I AM READY TO JUST SAY FUCK IT
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and cancel
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go visit Dusty
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I'm legit just uuuugh.
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and have adventures
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ADVENTURES WITH REAL LIFE QUATRE
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BUT DUSTY IS BUSY.
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BUSY DUSTY IS BUSY
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HE IS RL QUATRE
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Only he can't take breaks when he wants.
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DUSTY WILL REARRANGE SHIT HE SAID HE COULD DO WHATEVER SO HE HAD MORE TIME
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Dusty can punch his team lead in the face
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BUT I DO NOT WANT HIM TO MAKE HIMSELF SICK
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I'll be fine.
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And my roommates, for the most part, are pretty cool
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^
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So if they are free you are welcome to hang out with them
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Guuuuh, I'm super stressed okay I'm not going to make a decision atm. I will get back to you when I've calmed down but right now I seriously am having an acne breakout from sress
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I am 25 years old and DEALING WITH ACNE WHAT THE FUCK.
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I'm almost 22 and still dealing with it
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hormones do not give a fuck about age
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I have no cons or con meetings planned right now during your original trip dates... and I do have some holiday/vacation time I can use as well
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Oh, that's fine Fee. I want you to make the decision based on what is most comfortable for you. You don't have to decide right this very second. There's still time
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first see what the hell is going on with Ren closer to the 10th or whatever date you were going to give them re: cat
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Surprisingly, that is the one Mary Kay product I will use - their acne treatment gel
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Okay good because I'm just... My stomach hurts and I'm super stressed.
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Ren is super stressed
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This is a super bad situation
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if you still don't feel comfortable, then you can decide whether you want to have adventures with Dusty, or just cancel all together
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I have yet to find something that works that DOESN'T DRY OUT MY SKIN LIKE A FUCKING DESERT
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I like the Aveeno stuff but man
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I use apricot scrub
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It works super good
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St. Ives?
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Yeah
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yeah the MK stuff does that. it's meant to be a spot treatment
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But I have super oily skin
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St. Ives actually stretches your pores.
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It makes them more visible.