he honestly just wants a hint that Gojyo would be willing to be friends and thinks "we both love this person isn't it delightful that he's hot" is a reasonable friend bonding moment
the degree to which Jedao has shifted to "Gojyo's with Armand and therefore Over That, he's just not jumping on Hakkai because Change and Feelings are scary in specific. but thinking he's hot and not even letting him see isn't Feelings so ....???"
it's not just that the hexarchate is queernormative, it's also that aside from certain specific taboos, it's also not got a shred of puritanism, it's very generally chill about sex
if Jedao had any indication that he could leave without Hakkai getting scared or gojyo feeling guilty for driving him away he would be off like a shot tbh
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