2. If she doesn't trust you? There isn't one. Don't touch her. <3 Headpats and touching her hair are fine 99.9% of the time for anyone she likes (trust not inherently required), closer CR is good for regular touch & some extended touch, and she's intensely touchy with John (cats can pet other cats......) and Sokie who are both allowed to touch wherever
If she's in cat form you can kind of do whatever, though, she likes touch that way. Manhandle that cat. She's cool with it. Sometimes you are a very touchy person and then you get profoundly traumatized of the idea of other people's hands on you and have to slowly exposure therapy your way back towards 'Actually It's Fine'.
4. Multiple sets of hands on him in a combat context is fine, it's as soon as it's not about violence he starts getting uncomfortable. ...and then in an intimate context he's fine with it again, it loops around.
1. there is something about ashton that makes them fundamentally more likely to get scooped. It's extremely hard to actually keep them carried if they don't want to be! But they do kind of radiate the 'you should pick them up and walk away with them to interrupt the argument they're having' energy, is the thing,
Sometimes you are a very touchy person and then you get profoundly traumatized of the idea of other people's hands on you and have to slowly exposure therapy your way back towards 'Actually It's Fine'.