so im like 98% sure im gay... but i don't want to break up with my gf.. does it count if she goes by all pronouns? i don't really know if it counts but i need help with this...😓😓

she goes by all but mostly she/her, so im not sure if that counts as gay for me or not... cause im so sure im gay..💔

pronouns ≠ gender!
if you still like her then I'm sure it's fine (I'm a big believer you an do whatever u want! I mean I'm mspecgay so)
if you think it counts then it counts. it rlly only matters if you still like her. if you don't, then that's okay! you're discovering yourself

thank you so much man, hearing that really helps and i really do still like her so im just happy to hear that. thank you so much!!!

of course! you can use whatever label you want and love whoever you want! it's your experience you're completely valid !