in earth terms he's like a kinsey 5.5, a woman doesn't necessarily have to be butch exactly to get his attention but she definitely has to be Large and Muscular
and he's very high libido but also has had a lot of hangups to work through, and for him the most important thing is being wanted, and I think he could genuinely be happy in a monogamous relationship if that's what his partner really wanted, as long as that person was pretty physically affectionate
to him 'marriage' means 'we are each other's life plan, i go where you go' and he's very sad he didn't get Eiffel to marry them, and is distantly resigned to marrying gojyo someday when he gets his head out of his ass lmao
I has his own realm and his own shit going on and it is largely solitary!!! if he had a successful relationship, it would have to be somebody else also focued on their own shit primary. whom he can have a long-term but infrequent intimacy
and in like with that kind of "I show up occasionally for centuries" vibe I think he would default to polly. you can have whoever you want in YOUR house
hakkai is a very sexy man but he is NOT Jedao's type factiongenderwise, which is a very fun foil to Hakkai being vaguely more attracted to women usually
a mansomeone else in my house"