fuzzypink
Anyone else feeling like rp is disappearing? For the past month or so I've been tagging out, toplevelling things and nada. Just me?
shinotenshi22
it could be that a lot of us don't have time/energy for creative stuffs. (I miss tagging with you and playing with you though)
shinotenshi22
I know when I'm really stressed, my RP drive takes a nose dive
fuzzypink
Yeah, I get that. I usually have too much time on my hands.
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it is discouraging when you're not getting any play for sure
shinotenshi22
Link me memes/top levels? I'm also always down for PSLs
shinotenshi22
αℓєχ яυzєк : goes for you too btw.
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shinotenshi22 : <3 I put a few on shippy texts today but I am down for whatever
shinotenshi22
^^ Linking me is the best way to get my attention at least.
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I took a break for several months from DW because I wasn' t really getting play but I am back and trying again
shinotenshi22
I've been buried in Game stuff (shiny new toy) in Pixie Led and a bit in Laby stuff
shinotenshi22
and RL
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understandable
spiteologist
yeah idk what's going on lately but everyone seems to be going through it in ways that burn them out on RP?

(it's me i'm everyone BUT ALSO THERE'S A THEME)
antler queen
bakerstreet is pretty dead tbh
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there used to be so many more memes
spiteologist
idk why though, if it's just politics and general global bullshit burning everyone out or if there's more to it
antler queen
I was not feeling rp for a while but I think part of that was not being invested in my game anymore while being a helper mod there, so it started to feel like a job
antler queen
like "oh better not neglect the game I'm helping mod" which just led to me neglecting it more bc I was tired of my character there and of rp generally
spiteologist
and it's not unique to the hobby either, tbf, I know a lot of people irl who have dropped out of other hobbies (craft groups, tabletop, sports) temporarily or permanently in the past six months
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existing is hard right now tbh
antler queen
I think we had a temporary rp high during pandemic
spiteologist
it feels like everyone is just burnt out on life
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spiteologist
(and like, that's in the UK, so it's not just US stuff, I think everything everywhere is just a Lot right now)
antler queen
and now everyone's got other shit going on and rp is the first hobby to really die off if you have other things you're invested in
antler queen
for me, being on the internet at all ramps my anxiety
antler queen
because you can't get away from the constant influx of negative input
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I gave up Facebook for Lent for exactly that reason
spiteologist
but also that does give me hope that it's a temporary thing, because the thing is that burnout usually does pass one way or the other (broadly speaking. don't misinterpret me on that, I have technically been in a state of burnout for 15+ years at this point)

I think we might just be in a kind of recalibration phase right now.
spiteologist
idk what that means but it made sense in my head
antler queen
spiteologist : tired hi five; I've been burnt out since college
antler queen
I tried to fix it by doing more school
spiteologist
antler queen I did fix it in that I haven't been "mostly bedbound/housebound with ME" levels for the past decade or so, but then unfortunately: adult employment

but I think that's kind of what I mean about recalibration. ya don't necessarily get over burnout per se, but over time lots of people work out how to rejig their remaining energy for Fun Things
spiteologist
I think a lot of people right now are in the downward plummet bit of burnout (for whatever reasons - besides capital-P Politics, work and housing both seem more unstable than usual) and eventually that will start to level out

...i hope
antler queen
oh my god don't tell me you can't get over burnout; I will do something drastic if this is all the energy I'm ever gonna have
spiteologist
listen i worked full-time for the last 7 years and before that i was in full-time education, and i did manage hobbies and RP in there. there's "getting better" and "getting better", iykwim
spiteologist
also sorry fuzz i didn't mean to derail this much but i have been thinking about it a LOT
antler queen
I am not at my worst rn so fingers crossed I don't have another dip due to gestures
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Just think about all we've been through in the last 25 years, the world we grew up in no longer exists
antler queen
but yeah the random rp just isn't there! but feel free to harass me directly for any of mine.
spiteologist
also i am a bad model for whether you can get over burnout because lbr for the entire time i have been Going

if i start getting over burnout i'm like AH. TIME TO PILE TEN MORE PROJECTS ON HERE. just don't do like me and you'll probably be fine.
spiteologist
but yeah seconding that: hmu if you want threads, I'm slow lately but i will tag back eventually i swea
spiteologist
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fuzzypink
Hello all. This is what happens when you're at work and can't pay attention
spiteologist
SORRY AGAIN
fuzzypink
Yes to all of this. I understand there's a lot if shit going around in real life. My other hobbies have taken a hit as well. This just feels a little more recent, to me anyway. I guess maybe I should start tag tag link plurks? I just don't like owning up to all my accounts. Cause if I do you'll all avoid me and think I'm crazy. :-)
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lol I have so many too so I would never judge or avoid
antler queen
lmao unfortunately I tend to gaslight myself into thinking past burned out me was just a lazy fuck
antler queen
"I'm fine NOW I can definitely just handle 5 different projects on nothing but caffeine and willpower!"
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seems legit
spiteologist
oh mood
fuzzypink
See, I've learned my lesson. I overworked/stressed myself into CFS and git taken down physically fir most if a decade. That ain't happening again nossir.
spiteologist
hoo-ee lookee here fellas, we got ourselves a sensible person who looks after their health and wellbeing

must be from outta town
spiteologist
(in this metaphor i am still riding into your town to say this)
antler queen
a sensible person, in this economy?
fuzzypink
Only in the sense that I need to not stay in bed for a year like I did last time. I simply cannot afford it. The economy, in fact, is my motivation. Also, getting out of bed once in a while actually feels good. Shh, don't let that out.
antler queen
damn going for my stupid little walk for my stupid health
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