mild vent ] i love to whine and complain but like. my younger friend has been liveblogging what feels like every new symptom and development in him being sick in my dms and i don't know how many more "damn that sucks" i have left in me

i am trying to to supportive but at some point when you've told me about another coughing or sneezing fit and when you took your medicine for the last three days i . please

i was sick for half the month and yes i complained but i wasn't telling anyone about my 20th sniffle.....

tbh i think they're just looking for someone to chat with lol

sounds like they're either lonely or too used to oversharing

which yeah i get!!! and i care and worry about him! but this is all he's talked about for the last three days. every few hours he'll check in and then spend the next hour or so updating me on what happened in that time

like . i do feel for him. i know it SUCKS. and he probs wants attention and validation and i am trying to provide it its just , a lot! he's 20 years old and by god you can tell

i always feel so bad complaining about him because i KNOWW he doesn't want to be seen as a bother and really. he's not. and i'm happy that he sees me as someone he can come to. i just want to noogie him from time to time for the heinous crime of being mildly annoying

ah yeah, 20 years old.... that is definitely still an age where you want validation and attention a lot....

baby

YEAH. he's very young and his parents baby him a lot. so like. i get it

maybe ignoring his frequent updates will get him to slow down on the updates

at least it'll save you the headache of trying to come up with 20 million ways to say that sucks

dfsghdfjkghfghh true!