i don’t think i’d wanna be in a relationship with someone if they don’t respect that im not any gender, idk how else to explain it, like no im not a girl or boy either im just me, you could say nonbinary or some other label but idc i don’t want ppl defining me being a boy or girl. yeah slang and jokes are okay but when you really mean it, that’s the issue

sorry guys had to get this off my chest, i can’t imagine telling people irl they’d freak and just be like “ok?” “you look like a girl” “idc”