11. love languages - giving, they're both hugely into acts of service, but J1 is more likely to have HUGE DRAMATIC GESTURES (potentially world-altering) whereas J2 is more likely to do quiet, intense labor trying to do something almost-invisibly useful
with Hakkai it tends to show a lot more in wearing stuff Hakkai knitted for him, but I can absolutely see him stealing a hoodie from Eiffel or a blazer from john and mooching around in Very Little Else fishing for a reaction or batting his eyelashes like 'can i keep it?'
I feel like he wouldn't care THAT much about lovers in his everyday clothes but he does definitely kink on the idea of wrapping Hakkai up in a Fancy Space Silk Dressing Gown in Obnoxiously Shuos Colors
Jedao One is more likely to try to make someone laugh with a wicked raunchy joke and flagrant eyebrow waggling, but J2 might do that if he were already comfortable and intimate with someone
they both focus a lot of attention on people, and they're both likely to use very very light touches and earnest compliments, and they both know how to use their voice
they also both will, if possible, pass up an obvious double entendre while calling attention to the fact that the opportunity was there, we both see it, right - and then making another, different, more personalized and less rote double entendre
Ooh, good going on the makeup, Jed'ika! Fives approves. (He still loves makeup and jewelry, and he still has that red dress Jean made/tailored for him)
also nails... him and Taura doing each others' nails and makeup when she visits, hanging out and prepping her for a fancy date with Jedao
Ptriciadactyl
XD
22. ideal date would depend on the dynamic of the partner, but I think he'd go crazy for like. an extremely ritzy Spa Date masquerading as a Nature Date where he got to be in hot springs under a natural sky and wash and pamper his date and explore a beautiful natural location but then also have lots of wild sex back in the yurt on a nice king mattress
but tbh if his persistent fantasy of Hanging Out Watching TV and then he gets his head pushed down and his partner pretends to keep watching the show while he blows them counts as a date, that's definitely up there
23. MANY things. he loves a blush!!! he loves Interesting Hair and light/colored eyes. there are lots of things he thinks are sexy or attractive but not necessarily cute
Asterisk, if he thinks it's reciprocated but the other person is shy, the flirting WILL be calibrated to a meticulously planned but probably fast seduction campaign, that may or may not break down partway through (Eiffel, Zerxus John)
and it's like. the 'middle schooler clueless bonk kiss' of cuddling. just throws his body on yours and maybe that'll work!!! (when he's in cat form it mostly does)
22 - high brow/low brow - Fancy Expensive Dinner with Fancy Expensive Wine and then take her to the 1am empty movie theater to heckle some fun schlock together while blasted
or that you want to kill kujen for him. its the thought that countsor make kujen throw a hissy fit and self-derail out of spite