fucked up last night by not holding dog on short enough leash while we were out walking them

Prism is fine just with a limp and some bruising.

but yeah he lunged at moving car and bounced off

trip to the emergency vet for X-rays, but no fractures or internal problems

He just wanted to say hi

SpaceyKacie : yeah... Andy wants to have a serious conversation tonight because this has rattled his sense of trust in me a little

Damn dude I’m sorry 😞

SpaceyKacie : I'm not worried, he prefaced with "I love you..." and it's good that we can address issues like this early and up front with good communication

Still, guilt is one of my least favorite emotions and I have a hard time logicing it away.

good talk, went about at expected

even the ask that long term if we're going to live together and have foster children in the house Andy wants me to have my license if not my own car

that does sound like a p grounded conversation. I still struggle to not knee jerk into being conflict averse out and build hyperbolic outcomes, but seeing examples of things like this do is help me imagine and believe in less emotionally charged trajectories and exchanges. ty for sharing

he just pulled up the DOL for me to apply for a learners permit

Have you ever had a license or would this be a first time learn?

SpaceyKacie : I had a learners permit in high school at one point and took a defensive driving course but that was about the extent of it