I decided to stick around, though medyo bawas ma oras para may boundaries. Ang panget kasi na bawat sandali parang binabantayan. Toxic na sa sarili ko, baka pati sa kanya. As long na tanggap ko, na kung hindi managing kami meron pa namang iba. 😂

Daisy ʚଓ : Ano ba dapat reply dito - encourage ko ba to let go or should I play devil's advocate?

HappyPride🌙😼 : sakto nato, may boundaries. Thanks

HappyPride🌙😼 : Acceptance & letting go

Daisy ʚଓ : ✔ gotcha

Daisy ʚଓ : HappyPride🌙😼 : Still thanks, though I'm not letting go. I have already accepted whatever might happen. There was a time that I was loyal to her, but now I might open myslef to loving others as well.

Daisy ʚଓ : HappyPride🌙😼 : ok lang maging loyal eh kahit hindi karelasyon, pero mahirap yan kapag may obsession ka na. It feels like she's the only you like, that your world will collapse if you're not going to end up together. Kaya naging loyal kasi mahal ko talaga. Yong nilalagay mo sa pedestal, you see her as perfect without flaws. 😂

Drew : Good to know bes, marami pang iba d'yan =)

🤔

i guess i'm an advocate ng i wouldn't really push if it's not meant to be. 🤔

or I've been reading into many cases ng stalking etc sa ig and watching em sa c&i. not accusing you of being one
one sided na relationships are hard, yep but I guess I meant to say is...chill lang? lighten up? dami pang fish in the sea.

also...I'm just really practical when it comes to this things. time and experience with a SAer/predator when I was younger kinda did that to me. 🤔

*these things

crysta17 : I am dealing with love obsession.

Drew :

Drew : that seems toxic tho.

therapy may do wonders. i find this kinda scary/creepy.

crysta17 : I'm not gonna do anything bad to you.

Drew : it's not that. i feel for the girl (and other women) and also...it's self help din for you.

like many fear therapy because it's like they believe others will think there's something wrong with them but it's self help (and could be a coping mech). it's nice to be heard (esp by a prof on these things...I have my own issues and see a psych...

....din occasionally). I'm dysthemic (chronically, pervasively depressed tho I may look like I function fine. heh.)

kinda worried lang it might escalate which cannot be good for both you and the others involved.

crysta17 : Thanks

rather than retreat in yourself, try going out and actually talking this out with someone who can help. it might be freeing afterwards. idk. it helps to talk to professionals sa psych field. (me seeing a psych means I go to a psychiatrist...tho I've a psychologist/psychotherapist din I haven't been to in a while).