🚂Trainrot🚃
How do you all figure out which threads to drop? I am trying to sort them out so I can eat the elephant and get back RPing.
🚂Trainrot🚃
But yeah, I am feeling overwhelmed?
Meow Knight
Me personally, if I do have need to drop old threads, I decide based on age and also whether they still have anywhere to go. If it feels like most of the potential's already been tapped, I feel better about letting it go.
HALF A HEART
i do what meowzy said but also if i look at the tag and i just immediately feel like i can't do it i set it aside
HALF A HEART
if the thread seems important i'll ask about handwavign the end but i don't force anything that looks scary
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some people just clean slate it
wicker stan
^clean slating might be best if the tag sorting is becoming a significant obstacle and overwhelming you
🚂Trainrot🚃
Thing is, I am really bad at judging if things still have places to go or not. And with clean slating I worry that I am over looking with things to go.
HALF A HEART
ok thats the anxiety talking
🚂Trainrot🚃
I am very anxious!
HALF A HEART
your friends will discuss with you if they need things wrapped up, and if you are unsure you can ask them
🚂Trainrot🚃
Like I don't want to seem like I consider anyone less important than others too >_o
HALF A HEART
you probably arent actually that bad at judging it, you just understandably like the threads you have going with people and dont want to disappoint anyone
🚂Trainrot🚃
and I am just stressing about how long it has taken me to get back to them D:
HALF A HEART
and thats a valid worry, but in a hobby based in collaboration we have to trust that our friends are doing their part in the collab by communicating with us when they need more from us!
🚂Trainrot🚃
/nod nod
chris ⛅
yeah just put a message out on plurk to say "I'm going to clean slate, so if there's anything you want to hash out how it would have ended, let's do that here"
🚂Trainrot🚃
Should I also include a note saying 'THIS IS IMPORTANT AND SHOULD REALLY BE THREADED OUT' that I am down for that too?
chris ⛅
yeah you can say "if there's something you want to keep going lmk and I'll tag it back"
🚂Trainrot🚃
ill do that today then. thank you
𝕔𝕠𝕤𝕞𝕠𝕤 ✩₊˚.⋆☾⋆
I always like....if a particular thread has become a Source Of Anxiety, it's def time for that one to go
𝕔𝕠𝕤𝕞𝕠𝕤 ✩₊˚.⋆☾⋆
I tend to get caught on specific things and then have trouble doing all the other things bc I haven't done the one thing
🚂Trainrot🚃
Its hard for me to pinpoint things, like I dont know if its like an outside stress affecting my tagging or an inside one.
HALF A HEART
the source might not matter, i think
the source could be different but the effect is still the same
HALF A HEART
if you are stressed, you're not going to do it eagerly
HALF A HEART
so if you're having trouble jumping back in, start what excites you, or at the very least what doesn't give you any stress to do
🚂Trainrot🚃
/nod nod
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