🚂Trainrot🚃
How do you all figure out which threads to drop? I am trying to sort them out so I can eat the elephant and get back RPing.
🚂Trainrot🚃
But yeah, I am feeling overwhelmed?
Meowderbolts*
Me personally, if I do have need to drop old threads, I decide based on age and also whether they still have anywhere to go. If it feels like most of the potential's already been tapped, I feel better about letting it go.
DEADSCHOLAR
i do what meowzy said but also if i look at the tag and i just immediately feel like i can't do it i set it aside
DEADSCHOLAR
if the thread seems important i'll ask about handwavign the end but i don't force anything that looks scary
DEADSCHOLAR
some people just clean slate it
wicker stan
^clean slating might be best if the tag sorting is becoming a significant obstacle and overwhelming you
🚂Trainrot🚃
Thing is, I am really bad at judging if things still have places to go or not. And with clean slating I worry that I am over looking with things to go.
DEADSCHOLAR
ok thats the anxiety talking
🚂Trainrot🚃
I am very anxious!
DEADSCHOLAR
your friends will discuss with you if they need things wrapped up, and if you are unsure you can ask them
🚂Trainrot🚃
Like I don't want to seem like I consider anyone less important than others too >_o
DEADSCHOLAR
you probably arent actually that bad at judging it, you just understandably like the threads you have going with people and dont want to disappoint anyone
🚂Trainrot🚃
and I am just stressing about how long it has taken me to get back to them D:
DEADSCHOLAR
and thats a valid worry, but in a hobby based in collaboration we have to trust that our friends are doing their part in the collab by communicating with us when they need more from us!
🚂Trainrot🚃
/nod nod
chris 🪻
yeah just put a message out on plurk to say "I'm going to clean slate, so if there's anything you want to hash out how it would have ended, let's do that here"
🚂Trainrot🚃
Should I also include a note saying 'THIS IS IMPORTANT AND SHOULD REALLY BE THREADED OUT' that I am down for that too?
chris 🪻
yeah you can say "if there's something you want to keep going lmk and I'll tag it back"
🚂Trainrot🚃
ill do that today then. thank you
𝕔𝕠𝕤𝕞𝕠𝕤 ✩₊˚.⋆☾⋆
I always like....if a particular thread has become a Source Of Anxiety, it's def time for that one to go
𝕔𝕠𝕤𝕞𝕠𝕤 ✩₊˚.⋆☾⋆
I tend to get caught on specific things and then have trouble doing all the other things bc I haven't done the one thing
🚂Trainrot🚃
Its hard for me to pinpoint things, like I dont know if its like an outside stress affecting my tagging or an inside one.
DEADSCHOLAR
the source might not matter, i think
the source could be different but the effect is still the same
DEADSCHOLAR
if you are stressed, you're not going to do it eagerly
DEADSCHOLAR
so if you're having trouble jumping back in, start what excites you, or at the very least what doesn't give you any stress to do
🚂Trainrot🚃
/nod nod
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