[work] why the fuck is everything my responsibility

I emailed a coworker that a file was all good at 11:21, knowing that she had to leave at 12

did she email me when she saw me working on other stuff? did she make sure it was done before noon?

no

I emailed her a couple of minutes before 12 and she just sent a "oh yeah i missed it thanks for the resend" email

I SHOULD NOT HAVE TO HOLD YOUR HAND WITH THIS

YOU ARE A GROWN WOMAN

this shit is why I want to leave