As someone who has done a LOT of commission work involving rp things, I can promise you that whoever you commission is not going to mind it And if it was something they couldn't draw for w/e reason, they would let you know!
not to imply that any artist wouldnt care about what theyre drawing bc they do but I will say theyre gonna be more concerned about getting paid than anything LOL
Oh yeah, I have a few I am preusing, but I would much rather commission local (aka my friends and stuff) if that makes sense? I have had too many artists steal my money so I have become very...shy
Yeah! actually cringe or not, I keep my commissions confidential unless the client gives me the go-ahead while I work on them just as a courtesy, I bet others do the same. but I hear ya on it feeling kind of scary to try to explain an rp-related prompt to someone not in that circle
And if it was something they couldn't draw for w/e reason, they would let you know!