1, He came home earlier from his voyage or never left. Was there when the coup happened and got spirited away with his family. Some years as refugees, eventually back as the Dauvkind, but spared all of his trauma.
2, More assertive after the prison to see his family. Traumatized from it, scarred, but eventually getting reunited, healing. As much as one can. There's still Kolkans mark causing misfortune tho...
4, In Voortyashtan. Being somewhere closer when summoned to meet Signe, getting there faster. Fast enough to prevent her dying. Still a lifetime of terrible things, still a fight to come, but instead of exile he could've gone home, retired somewhat.
Sigrud, after this, having some complicated feelings on whether he dreamed this or if it was real at all (this'd not be the first time for him after all)
thrown a dice and landed on 2. So sigrud will have been subjected to prison and the horrors in there, but never gotten in touch with that much of the Divine. he'd get to raise his daughters from ~late teens (tho Signe would be bitter still, refugee years do that)
but they'd not blame him for being away and esp Hild would make sure he gets the peace needed to heal. be a logger, sailor, in some remote village. Dauvkind mostly a figurehead, a politicial symbol (that he'd still hate, but less fighting pirates)
obv Kolkans mark would be on him, so he gets chronic pain but the thing is dubious enough in its actual instructions that it'd just lead to a life of being clumsy and having a bunch of bad fortune
i'll probably take this as a start to have him work on the Strands Watch Lighthouse, since that him would want to be somewhere his family could find easily, were they to come here too
so, Dreylings are rather self-sufficient. they dont care for gender roles, tasks are equal. he used to spend months on ships and had lifestock. Sigrud most likely can knit
ages late, but just recalled this exists and it very much could be Sigrud and Hild there.
spiteologist
tag bc Faramir calling him a romantic got me on it
Sigrud most likely can knit