I feel like I'm secretly being shamed or smth..

One of my irl friends invited me out for a lake trip today. On this lake trip would be her, her boyfriend, two of our other mutual friends and another person..

Me and my roommate have to go and pay bills today and get groceries and she's all 'oh can't that wait til tomorrow'

I had said no, gave my reasons and now I feel like I'm being guilty and shamed a little bit.

But that's a group of five whole ass people and I don't do good in large groups of people.

Its not that I don't wanna meet her spiffy bf or anything

I mean, if it made you uncomfortable in the end.... it wouldn’t be fun ;;. And create more anxiety honestly /hugs/

Perhaps it was a good call to bail out

Yeah ;; thank you 😊

I agree