no, not i would still have a negative reaction to it because pregnancy is my hot trigger issue. i would be uncomfortable but not for fetishization vibe reasons
not even that lmf. Ultimately the argument is just "I don't like it tho": I dont like how much us transfems gets sexualized, and it makes me uncomfortable. You can make and like whatever memes you want, but keep in mind that the way this meme and MANY others are laid out as is fetishizing transfems.
it's gotten to the point that actual people that make jokes about themselves can't make them. and it's weird how the people making the actual harmful fucking jokes never get push back like this.
in more amusing news, love this response someone had to the original joke I love when extended family who don't realize my partner is trans ask me about having kids. I just say, "Maybe, we're trying reeaaallllyyy hard like all the time...just constantly" and let everyone regret the question coming up.
'fetishization' is straight up one of those overused words on the internet that has been used so often that it's beginning to hurt the people it was meant to help.
I also saw a conversation that this reminds me of, it was someone saying that maybe people need to get a little desensitized to the internet. Not as bad as it was in the wild west days or anything, but those of us who had to live through these times are kind of puzzled at the weaksauce shit that makes people flip out these days
some people are just as disgusted by the idea of trans folks being kinky and sexual as your bargain bin conservative, but instead of unpacking that they try yo make it sound progressive
I dont like how much us transfems gets sexualized, and it makes me uncomfortable. You can make and like whatever memes you want, but keep in mind that the way this meme and MANY others are laid out as is fetishizing transfems.I love when extended family who don't realize my partner is trans ask me about having kids. I just say, "Maybe, we're trying reeaaallllyyy hard like all the time...just constantly" and let everyone regret the question coming up.